Posted: Mon Mar 17, 2008 3:30 pm
Post subject: Re: me and partner have split up !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Hi i am currently 17weeks 1 day pregnant and me an partner have split up after 5 years reaaly dont know what to do
dont worry ..find out the reasons ..if fault is on his side then ..leave it..if fault is on ur side then try to overcome this issue and say sorry to him..if he really loves u ..he will come to u soon
as this child is not only urs it is also his child..dont worry
This is precious time for ur ..becoming mother is not normal thing..u shud be happy
Life goes on like that..no one knows what happens...
Dont worry be happy
Posted: Tue Mar 18, 2008 12:21 am
Post subject: xx
aww sorry to hear this. have u split for good? or could u get back together. if it is for good even tho its heart braking and nothing any 1 says is ganna take that kinfd of pain away. just try to take each day as it comes and look forward to the rest of ya pregnancy then meeting ya baby xx
Posted: Tue Mar 18, 2008 1:20 pm
This is a awfull this to hear and hope you are feeling ok... it can exhaust you when you go through something like this and you can forget to eat drink and even sleep so remember to keep going and keep eating and drinking etc for babys sake.
Fingers crossed the best outcome works out for you.. I know its difficult and I cant even start to imagine how your feeling.
Its a difficult time when everything is changing me and my partner had so many arguments early on but you may just need a break and time to think..
Posted: Mon Mar 31, 2008 4:39 pm
hey i hope you are ok, i cant imagine how you must feel.. my partner and i have had some pretty big rows and tht was upseting enough.
you dont say much about what /why it hapened but if you have been together for five years it can be a difficult time anyway and then the stress of having a baby on top ... have you considered counselling together or anything?
Maybe it would be worth a try, if you dont want to break up that is.
it may be you are better off with out him if he is not very supportive or grown up to throw something away like that after so long.
lots of luck and best wishes
Make sure you have people arund you to support you