Posted: Thu Aug 14, 2008 7:03 pm
Post subject: stupid or just really nice????
ok, so i am a qualified nail technician and do extensions etc from home just for extra pocket money for friends, family etc.
well my sis in lw is getting married on monday and i offered 2 do her nails - which i didnt mind at all UNTIL today i found out i am being expected to do her nails, her bridesmaids and my moth in lw - for FREE - the cheek - i could earn 90 quid doing this. the fact is i was told not asked to do this - what with my spd i think its abit much as they know how much pain i am in
i dont know if i am extreemly stupid or extreemly nice
Posted: Thu Aug 14, 2008 8:28 pm
Be honest about it. Tell her what you feel. Otherwise sheŽll always expect something of you. So the best thing to do is put your foot down when it first happens. So you could either say, well since im not asked i have to cahrge you (maybe less, family discount) or as already mentioned no wedding present.
Posted: Fri Aug 15, 2008 11:06 am
Posted: Fri Aug 15, 2008 1:07 pm
I think that is sooo cheeky. My cousin is a beauty therapist and i didn't ask her to do our nails and make up on my wedding day because i knew she would probably feel obliged to do it for free and i know she can't afford to. I told her i wanted her to enjoy the day as a guest and just get herself ready like everyone else.