Posted: Sun Aug 17, 2008 11:29 am
Post subject: ppl help please help
if your child was born with some thing wrong with them would you still treat them like they were normale? my girl skye was born with cancer three years ago she has been in the clear for a year now so i dont know how to treat her been told i am to soft on her but i got told that she might get it again and they will not be able to get rid of it again so its like waiting but you dont want it to happen if you know what i mean . when she had her last chemo she met a three year old boy just starting his but sadly matt is not with us any more how would you treat your child if they are in the clear of cancer ?
Posted: Sun Aug 17, 2008 11:49 am
Posted: Sun Aug 17, 2008 6:47 pm
Sorry to hear she had such a tough start to life, but so glad she is in the clear now.
My daughter was born with kidney problems and despite many operations is still having problems. I am always told I treat her too softly, which I think is kind of true. When she was young we did used to treat her a lot (before our son was born) but have stopped that. However at the moment she is definately rebelling and being naughty, so it's hard to know how to treat them. I think the best thing you can do is treat them like a normal child but always try to make sure they are happy and ok - just through spending quality time with them and making sure they know you are always there for them.
Posted: Sun Aug 17, 2008 9:22 pm
such a hard question to answer because i dont like to judge on things that i have never been through. i am so glad that she is ok now and so sorry that you have had to go through all of this. i would say just do what feels right and if her behaviour starts to cause problems then maybe you will have to think again. sorry im prob not much help xxx