Posted: Tue Apr 15, 2008 8:45 am
Post subject: friends unsue
hiya all. my friend as been having unproteted sex now for a while. she hasnt had a period in about 8 weeks but test are coming back negotive. she dont want a baby and if she was pregnant she wunt no who the father his. also she drinks alot and takes drugs on weekends im really worried that if she is pregnant the harm she will be causing her baby. as any 1 else had negitives results even tho they are preggys xx
Posted: Tue Apr 15, 2008 4:54 pm
think you should give your friend a little shake and tell her to take her backside to her doctors to find out if she is pregnant or not.
if she is she could really be putting her baby at risk, also if shes big enough to be having sex she should be big enough to use protection, or go on the pill or something!
hope im not comming across as too b***hy, just cant belive she could be so careless!
anyways, wish your friend the best of luck whatever the outcome.
Posted: Tue Apr 15, 2008 10:14 pm
Your friend has the right to live her life as chooses, as she may well tell u, and if she wants to put drugs and alcohol into her system then thats up to her, but if she pregnant then thats completely different.
At the minute she's behaving very selfishly she's not only got to consider the potential affects this may have on the life inside of her but also of the people's she's sleeping with, if she makes someone a dad then that affects them too.
Ur friend needs to take responsiblity for her actions and find out immeditely if she is expecting, if not and she doesnt want a baby then she should go on the pill or use some other form of contraception. She should also encourage her sexual partners to use condoms as this will protect her from any nasty infections.
Posted: Wed Apr 16, 2008 9:02 am
hey mylillamb how old is ur friend if you dont mind me asking?
even if she is not pregnant she is putting herself at great risk sleeping about and not using any protection she could catch a number of infections.
i think you should tell her that she really needs to visit a doc because if she is pregnant she might be causing alot of harm to the baby, and she is mayb thinking because she dont want to be pregnant she dont care what harm she is causing but she will regret it in the long term
hope you get through to her and dont let it worry you to much even tho she is your friend and of course you are concerned you have to look after yourself and your baby.
hope it all goes well gl hun