Posted: Mon Aug 22, 2011 10:19 am
Post subject: Not coping
I really feel like at this stage I should be more in control of my emotions following the loss of our beanie but at the moment I am really really struggling my edd was the 14th september and now its coming round I don't know what to do with myself
Posted: Mon Aug 22, 2011 10:43 am
I know exactly how you feel, it seems there's no end to reminders about what we're trying to achieve...
Are you able to take the 14th off with your OH? That's what we did on our due date. I found that knowing I would spend the day with my husband, not having to put up a brave face at work made the lead-up to the day easier. On the day we went to lunch and dinner, did a spot of shopping and then went to a show. Nothing fancy, just quality time out of the house and keeping busy.
Be kind to yourself, plan some nice distractions.
Posted: Tue Aug 23, 2011 11:00 am
Aww I know how it feels hun..
make sure your OH has the day off.. we spent a nice day together had lunch.. and let a balloon off.. my OH also wrote a card for our `baby`.. which was really sweet..
at the time I had found out I was pregnant again.. so in a way it made it slightly easier.. only to have a m/c a few days later.. double blow! ((HUGS)) xx
Tubal Reversal 19/7/10
Angel Baby due 18/5/2011 (ectopic)
Angel Baby due 25/1/2012 (m/c)
Angel Baby due 21/6/2012 (m/c)
All 3 much loved and wanted xx