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KaBum
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Posted: Mon Aug 22, 2011 10:19 am 
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I really feel like at this stage I should be more in control of my emotions following the loss of our beanie but at the moment I am really really struggling Crying or Very sad my edd was the 14th september and now its coming round I don't know what to do with myself Sad
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Posted: Mon Aug 22, 2011 10:30 am 
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to top it off I have just had an asda baby and toddler event letter through my door Crying or Very sad feels like a kick in the stomach
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Posted: Mon Aug 22, 2011 10:43 am 
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Hi there,

I know exactly how you feel, it seems there's no end to reminders about what we're trying to achieve...

Are you able to take the 14th off with your OH? That's what we did on our due date. I found that knowing I would spend the day with my husband, not having to put up a brave face at work made the lead-up to the day easier. On the day we went to lunch and dinner, did a spot of shopping and then went to a show. Nothing fancy, just quality time out of the house and keeping busy.

Be kind to yourself, plan some nice distractions.

Laura x
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Posted: Tue Aug 23, 2011 11:00 am 
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Sad Aww I know how it feels hun..
make sure your OH has the day off.. we spent a nice day together had lunch.. and let a balloon off.. my OH also wrote a card for our `baby`.. which was really sweet..
at the time I had found out I was pregnant again.. so in a way it made it slightly easier.. only to have a m/c a few days later.. double blow! ((HUGS)) xx
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Posted: Tue Aug 23, 2011 7:52 pm 
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aww hun ((hugs)) my thoughts are with you xx
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Posted: Tue Aug 23, 2011 8:14 pm 
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I just wanted to send a virtual big hug hun Sad. I always check on here for updates from you....hoping to see you have your bfp.

Try and make sure you are busy on the 14th and spending some time with Ian may help you (help you both).

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Posted: Thu Aug 25, 2011 4:18 pm 
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Time will heal the pain...sending you a hug!
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Posted: Sat Aug 27, 2011 7:28 pm 
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So many of us have been through the same, your not alone. Make sure your OH understands how your feeling and do something that you enjoy that day.

Take care of each other
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