Posted: Sun Sep 11, 2011 8:26 pm
Post subject: I'm having a d and c what happens?
I was hoping that at some point this week the baby would have evacutated my body on it's own. It hasn't. Why would it stay?
I'm booked in for a d and c Tuesday an I'm nor sure what to expect. Im not even sure what to expect after with ttc, my partner wants to get straight back to it an so do I but can't face the idea of this happening again.
Posted: Tue Sep 20, 2011 11:40 am
Firstly so sorry for your loss. I hope everything went ok and your getting through it. I had a d n c myself a couple years ago, same thing it wouldnt come away (my body tried so hard I flooded and ended up in a&e) it ended in a d n c the next day. I was the same didnt know wether I wanted to try again as it put me off. Anyway a couple months later I concieved and was a nervous wreck for the first 12 weeks or so, my little man is here 14 months old now. At the time I kept saying to myself well if it stayed put thats a good sign, obviously nature was telling me my little baby was either not there (chemical pregnancy)or didnt form properly. I felt like my world had been tipped upside down at the time, it will get easier and theres many of us who are proof there will be a happy ending. Good luck for the future xx
Posted: Tue Sep 20, 2011 2:27 pm
Thanks for replying
Im doing ok, I have bad an good days. I honestly think now that there must have been summit wrong with it so its prob for the best. Ive got 3 little ones an I know it sounds awful but I wouldnt have time to look after them properly. They are just starting in schools an nursery an my baby is 1.
I want to try again an I want to try soon but Im not bleeding enough to say yes Im bleeding its more like a drip every now an again so the OH wont have sex with me
Ill see what happens thats all I can do xxx