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Minxymoo
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Posted: Tue Sep 09, 2008 9:50 am 
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I've been trying for 4 years now. Getting really fed up especially as a young girl i work with has just announced she is pregnant. I can't even look at her let alone say well done
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Posted: Tue Sep 09, 2008 9:54 am 
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hiya minxy,
i understand how u feel. being trying for baby since 2005 n it wasnt an easy wait at all. got preg in may and lost it b4 july..... but i was still positive and believed it must happen.... so now am preg again.... and i know it will sail tru.
just continue trying and try not to be too anxious (which is not an easy one) and b4 u know it, u'll be there.
btw, try to be happy n look at ur colleague..... it'll will help u to relish in the joy of being preg.....

it'll come.... u will seee.
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Posted: Tue Sep 09, 2008 10:45 am 
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I know its hard, my SIL asked me to feel her baby when he kicked on SUnday and I lost mine 2 wks ago.

I try to look beyond it, it's very difficult but you have to try to be very strong. x
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Posted: Tue Sep 09, 2008 10:51 am 
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oh thats not good. Did she know?
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Posted: Tue Sep 09, 2008 10:56 am 
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Yes, she knows. But I guess she after 2 m/c she is so wrapped up in her PG my feelings didn't count. x
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Posted: Tue Sep 09, 2008 12:10 pm 
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I think she may have forgot that sometimes the happiness about your own pregnancy is non-transferable.
Wish you loads of luck for the future xx
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Posted: Tue Sep 09, 2008 12:13 pm 
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Thanks and you. x
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Posted: Tue Sep 09, 2008 12:16 pm 
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hey minxy. i'm sorry to hear you're having troubles and i can empathise. I've been married five years and nothing has happened in all that time. We took that huuuuge step in going to the docs to find out and were immediately referred to a fertility clinic. the first appointment is tomorrow and in all honesty i'm terrified but i think it'll be better to find out now then leave it much longer. You should go to your Dr; i know it's pretty daunting but i'm sure by making some headway in getting some answers you'll start to feel a whole lot better. Best of luck, take care and stay strong!
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Posted: Tue Sep 09, 2008 3:33 pm 
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Thx Kerplunk.
I am already under the Hospitals infertility clinic and receiving treatment for PCOS with Metformin and Clomid being prescribed. I'm just falling apart at the moment in my head and finding it very difficult to have sex at the mo because of this. I have an op. booked in at the end of November to have ovarian drilling and a flush thru - sounds more like something you'd do to a car!
Searching around on the internet I have found that i can get infertililty counselling and because i'm under the hospital we get 5 free sessions. Finally something free!

Good luck with your appointment they will probably just want to run some tests at first and don't be shocked if they ask to do a quick scan there and then!! hopefully it'll be something quick and easy to fix xx
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