Posted: Sun Mar 17, 2013 9:27 am
Post subject: How long
How long had you been with your partners before you got pregnant/decided to TTC? And were you living together?
With Sams dad we had been together about 9 months, before I moved in. Then decided to TTC after 6 months of living together.
I have talked about kids with my current boyfriend, and he says he wouldnt mind if I got pregnant. Now i dont like the idea of having an 'accident' or just not using any contraception and see what happens (as I got pregnant 1st month of trying with Sam, that would be my luck again!) so I am staying on contraception!
Also I would rather us be living together first.
Posted: Sun Mar 17, 2013 10:06 am
We'd been together for seven years, married and living together for two years when Emilia arrived. We spent a weekend in York for our first wedding anniversary and discussed trying then as I had come off the pill due to migraines. We were going to start trying the following year but got caught three months later! X x We planned this one a lot more carefully, we decided to try for a spring baby as Emilia turns four in July and starts school in September so a good time for me to be off on maternity leave x x x
Posted: Sun Mar 17, 2013 12:56 pm
We had been together 4 years, I lived with him at his mum's house.. We decided to not use anything and if it happened, it happened.. We found out a little over a month later.. With Lewis we did the same and 2 months later we found out we were expecting... And this time.. We were still discussing a 3rd child but got a bit carried away once.. Lol. X
Posted: Sun Mar 17, 2013 10:06 pm
Wow, I feel really old! We have been together for 13 years. We bought our house 9 years ago and got married 7 years ago. We discussed kids early on but wanted to be financially secure and enjoy life just the two of us. We started ttc after being married nearly 4 years, not expecting it to be so difficult. Got there in the end though xx