Posted: Tue May 21, 2013 6:21 am
Post subject: Is my husband selfish?
Please honest opinions!
Baby is due 6 October and my husband is from Australia so into the rugby. He has invited his mate who he grew up with to stay with us for 4 weeks at the end of October and November. They will be going away and staying there to watch it.
He knew I didn't want his mate here just after the baby is born I wanted us together as a family. We had a talk and I said for him to come over in the summer but he has gone and told him to come anyway. He says I'm selfish and don't want him to be happy. I feel like I am second best. He always goes out at least twice a week. He has money to do the rugby and go away yet we haven't even been on honeymoon. He has lied to me when he knew how I felt. I feel completely destroyed like I am not worth it and I don't even know what to do. I feel not important at all he wanted this baby yet wants to act like jack the lad.
I feel like a terrible mum I've got a 4 yr old from a previous relationship who adores him but what do I do stay with someone who doesn't care and wants his own way all the time? I feel trapped I have no money no car (he made me sell if for our wedding) no job and he won't move out. I don't even know where I'd go but I do t want to stay here when he's being like this and I don't think it will change. Now I'm stuck 20 weeks pregnant and feel like my world is falling apart.
Am I being that selfish that I don't want him here to cause a marriage breakdown?
Posted: Tue May 21, 2013 8:29 am