Posted: Thu Aug 01, 2013 3:43 pm
Post subject: Family grudges and negativity?!
Hey guys so me and my oh are thoughtly enjoying our pregnancy do far, we don't believe in silly stuperstitions and have bought a lot for the baby as its been planned we have saved a lot in secret so no-one asks favours ect, we it have enough for the baby my daughters birthday this month and moving out. So far my dads completely ignored me for months and yesterday I tried one last attempt to make sure my children have a grandfather in their lives, but so far no answer. My mum is grumpy and not yet even smiled at the thought of another baby we got our pram today and she scouled at us while we were having a "play" as parents to be do!. And my sister had a huge go at me over the phone when I first told her and hasn't been nice ever since, I almost feel like having a baby and moving out to start a new life is a crime, I'm really finding it hard without any of their support its actually breaking my heart :'( and they can't see it if I even try to talk to them I'm either being "over sensitive" or just plain "stupid" or in the wrong. I have support from my boyfriends family a lot actually but they don't live near us so I haven't exactly got that support around the corner. I've been like this from day 1 but I've tried to think it might blow over after a few weeks. It seems to be worse tbh and I honestly don't know what to do :'( any advice would be appreciated!
Posted: Thu Aug 01, 2013 7:01 pm
Posted: Fri Aug 02, 2013 12:20 pm
Posted: Fri Aug 02, 2013 7:33 pm
I was pregnant at 18, and had my daughter at 19! My family reacted very badly to this and i spent my whole pregnancy feeling down and it really ruined it for me and actually ruined my experience with Lola as a newborn and took me a while to adjust as i hadn't had that time during pregnancy. I have a point here haha
I think you should explain to your family how they're making you feel because they may not understand and i'd hate for you to go through what i did xx