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lara1673
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Posted: Fri Feb 28, 2014 12:30 pm 
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i have shared my story already.
briefly: i've done hysterectomy and don't have children. my option is either to use the service of surrogate mother or adopt a child.
Wanted to start this thread to know your opinion, opinion of people who has tried surrogacy and those who would like to try!
what are pluses and minuses of surrogacy? is it better to try trough clinic or try to find the mother by yourself?
and if try through clinic what to do when this procedure is illegal where you live?
will you go abroad?
thanx for all you answer before hand
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Posted: Thu Mar 06, 2014 5:20 pm 
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I would be interested in knowing a little more about this as we are starting to consider using a surrogate. I think we are going to try IVF once more and hope that it works but if it doesn't I think that surrogacy may be an option for us. Iv never thought so before but something seems to have clicked.

Has anyone been through it? Have you used people you know or strangers? How do you deal with the emotions? xxx
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Posted: Tue Mar 11, 2014 10:38 am 
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Hi

I would be interested in knowing a little more about this as we are starting to consider using a surrogate. I think we are going to try IVF once more and hope that it works but if it doesn't I think that surrogacy may be an option for us. Iv never thought so before but something seems to have clicked.

Has anyone been through it? Have you used people you know or strangers? How do you deal with the emotions? xxx


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Posted: Tue Apr 22, 2014 12:01 pm 
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Hi, ladies! How is your journeys? I used programm of surrogacy some time ago. So,if you have questions you can freely ask I'll be glad to share with you.
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Posted: Tue Apr 22, 2014 12:26 pm 
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have you really used surrogacy?where did you go and did you succeed from the first time?
share please your experience with us.
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Posted: Thu May 22, 2014 2:30 pm 
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Hi! I believe adoption is more complicated and you'll spend much more time in waiting list. I got friends who have been waiting for child for 7 years. Sad Sad Sad
If my next ivf isn't sucessful, I'll start considering the surrogacy option myself. Question Question Question
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Posted: Wed Jun 04, 2014 11:23 am 
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I looked in to surrogacy myself as my sister offered to carry for me. I choose against it when i found out that the childs birth certificate would be in my sister and her husbands name even with my eggs and husbands sperm. did not think this was right but in the UK they dont really beleive in Surrogacy.
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Posted: Tue Aug 05, 2014 11:34 am 
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thank youall for support and understanding.
didn't write for long...was so busy with alll this preparation...
if to be short i decided to use surrogacy program.
and now my surrrogate mother is pregnant for 1 omth already...i'm sohappy!can't describe emotions and feelings!!!
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Posted: Tue Aug 05, 2014 12:56 pm 
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As for me, I think that surrogacy is a good variant in such case. Of course, if you try surrogasy, you should do it through a clinic. If there is no such clinic in your country or it is forbidden by law, you risk less going abroad than searching a surrogate mother by yourself. Thanks for posting, Lara, and good luck. Where have you gone throgh the procedure?
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Posted: Tue Aug 05, 2014 1:55 pm 
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Lara, so great news!!!!! my congratulations and big hug for you!!!! What did you use? Services of the clinic or found surrogate by yourself?
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Posted: Thu Aug 07, 2014 9:37 am 
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thank you all for congrats.
yes i used services of clinic. didn't want to risk much.
i don't want to hear in the end: i will not give you my baby!!!it's MINE.
and i also wanted to be sure in the health of surrogate.
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Posted: Fri Aug 08, 2014 6:26 am 
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And what was the clinic?
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Posted: Fri Aug 08, 2014 12:43 pm 
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Clea wrote:
And what was the clinic?

the clinic is situated in the capital of Ukraine.
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Posted: Mon Aug 11, 2014 8:18 am 
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what is the name of the clinic?
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Posted: Mon Aug 11, 2014 9:10 am 
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And why Ukraine? As far as I know, not many people trust Ukrainian medecine
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