Posted: Fri Oct 17, 2008 11:06 am
Post subject: Good news...
My partner and i have found out were expecting our first... im 6 weeks and 1 day! We are so happy about it but need a little support.
My grandfather died this morning and my nan has been given a few days to live. I feel so guilty about this god news, and im affraid the fact im so upset will effect my baby.
Posted: Fri Oct 17, 2008 11:12 am
Welcome to the forum, and congratulations. xxx
I am so sorry for your loss. Don't feel guilty about your good news. Your grandad and nan would both be so proud of you.
After 3 and half years of ttc, tests being clear and unable to adopt, we have decided to become a patchwork family. Me, my hubby and stepchildren.
Its so sad to know I will never hear the word 'Mommy'.x
Posted: Fri Oct 17, 2008 12:13 pm
your grandad and nan will be your babys gaurdian angels
dont feel guilty about your good news coming at such a horrible time in your families life -others may feel it is something positive to focus on
take care -i dont think your grief will have effect on your little foetus