Posted: Mon Nov 03, 2008 8:21 pm
Post subject: baby alex jack
my lovely baby boy was born on the 25th oct and he lived for 1 hr and 21 mins.
i went in to labour at 23wks. after my water broke at 22wks
its his funeral 2moro and i dont know how im going to get through it.
has anyone been in the same stuation as me ?
Posted: Mon Nov 03, 2008 8:56 pm
Hi Hun Im so sorry for the loss of your precious son. I too as you have read have experienced a loss too. I lost my Angel in March through an ectopic at 6 and a half weeks. Obviously i feel your pain but have not had to experience my babies funeral. I will be so thinking of you my dear and send to hugs. I hope you can find the strength my sweet.
Posted: Tue Nov 04, 2008 7:29 am
yes hun, I have been through something similar. My little boy (Harry) died at 36 weeks in August 07 and his funeral was very very difficult. People said to me, its good to say goodbye, which really upset me, cos I couldnt say goodbye. I know now that you never say goodbye, our little ones are always with us. But its good to recognise and show love for the life that was taken. I hope and pray you have the strength needed to get through your little one's funeral, and the strength that you will need in the months to come. If you ever need to chat, please pm me, cos I do understand - to the point that we can only ever understand someone else's pain - and my thoughts are with you and your family. Pipsx