Posted: Tue Jul 03, 2007 9:36 am
Post subject: why was my daughter prem?
my daughter is now healthy happy 4 year old little girl, she was born 8 weeks premature by emergency c section and weighed just under 3pounds. at a normal ante natal scan i was told id lost fluid from umbilical cord and she wasnt growing properly. when i went back 4 a check up few days later i was told her heart wasnt working as well as it shud so instead of trying to get me further on in pregnancy they decided 2 bring her early. she was fine after c section and only needed 2 be kept in scbu around 6 weeks till she put weight on and cud be bottle fed ect, she never needed oxygen or ne other help as there was nothing wrong with her. whilst im ever thankfull she was so healthy and glad she was born early so she cud properly develope in care of scbu, iv never been told why? obviously as there was no problems with her after birth and because i lost fluid it must have been something wrong with me, an my body! is it normal not to be told, or find out what this is, an why? how do i no if it will happen again if i try 4 another? im worried it might, an if it happens earlier in pregnancy the outcome may not be so happy! i have had misscarriages b4-surley theres a link, a reason 4 these things an surley some investigation shud have been made!
Posted: Wed Apr 16, 2008 3:31 pm
hi i know how u feel my youngist was born 12wks prem is now a lively 2yrs old going on 21 lol. i dont understand why she was born early, there was nothing wrong my utrus just ruptued. sometimes there is no reason it just happens. ive learnt that through my life. im not religish or anythings are out of our control. thing are not always medical and you might never find out the reasons.
Posted: Mon May 05, 2008 6:50 am
Hi. My baby was born 8 weeks early too.I severely bled for 3 days in the hospital before she was bornand when my water broke they did a c section.They said it happened bcz the placenta detached from the uterus and told me not to worry that it might happen again.What is worrying me is that she is almost 6 months old and weighs only5 kgs and she was born 1.5 kgs.In the beginning she was growing fine and now she has stopped.Did u have that problem?
Posted: Wed May 14, 2008 9:28 am
Post subject: Hi
I've had 2 preemies 1 at 34 weeks and 1 at 26 weeks but i have just found out that i have a week cervix, to get this info i had to nag the hospital, gp, hv and even went bk to the midwife that i had when pg, we are ttc so i have been told there is an option of having a cervical stitch put in place.
Sometimes little ones just need to come out a little soooner i think your little one tricked the docs as she wanted to see her mummy sooner, it's easy to blame yourself i know i do, please go have a chat with your gp and if they aren't helpful nag everyone till they can give you answers.
Posted: Wed May 14, 2008 1:04 pm
hey everyone my first was born at 32 weks second at 36 weeks and third at 30 weeks and they dont know y they come early i just go into labour and they try to stop the labour but they still come but they all fine and very healthy