Posted: Thu Jan 08, 2009 7:50 pm
Post subject: It's been a sad day...
My husband & I went to our 12 week scan today full of nerves and excitement.
The scan guy looked really worried and had to call in another nurse to do an internal scan.
The news is not good, our baby died at 7 weeks the same time as our previous baby (we had a miscarriage in Aug 0 but this time it was a missed miscarriage! It feels so cruel cuz I was still feeling very pregnant and had a bump too.
I'm booked in for a d&c on Tues.
Posted: Thu Jan 08, 2009 10:14 pm
Thank-you. We chose the d&c option this time rather than natural so they can test the fetus for abnormalities. I'm so bloody angry cuz if they'd given me an early scan like they should have we would've found out earlier & would've not been as hopeful as what we were! We made it (we thought) to 12 weeks, it was all gonna be ok.
Sorry for the rant, I'm upset & seriously questioning my faith. We've lost 2 babies in 5 months!! (5 babies in total) Xxx
Posted: Fri Jan 09, 2009 4:35 pm
Im so sorry to hear about your loss. Its a horrible thing to go through. The same thing happened to me a few years ago and i also had d&c. Wouldnt like to think anyone ever had to go through that but unfortunatly its one of lifes horrible obsticles. I really hope things can work out for you in the future. xx
Posted: Mon Mar 23, 2009 12:23 pm
i so sorry for your loss, i had a missed miscarriage last sept, and choose to have a d&c, feel pregnant again and was told i could not have an early scan but started bleeding on sat got an emergency scan this avo, im petrified! like you have felt pregnant and had lots of hope but that is fading. i hope they can find out what is causeing this and hope you get some answers and get it sorted.
my heart and thoughts are with you xx