Posted: Tue Mar 03, 2009 8:55 pm
Post subject: can i have some adivice Plz ??????????
well i have just had a baby, she is 13 weeks. i just dunno who to speak. to. i had a litlle scare of a late period. well i have finally come on, and i am now taking the pill.
but i just have this feeling of wanting anouther baby. its weird to explain but i feel the need for anouther one. i know it will be reallly hard work. but it dont put me off. i dunno wether it is the wrong thing to have anouther lil babs or not? it would just be nice to have anouther opinion on it ?
thanks for the replys if any xxx
Posted: Wed Mar 04, 2009 8:43 am
i felt the same as you at ur stage and at 14weeks after andrew i conieved my second baby .. im now 13 weeks pregnant and it is hard, especially if baby 1 is still waking in the night as you go through that first trimester tiredness but it does get easier.
im so glad im having both my babies close together i think its going to be a perfect age gap!! andrew will just have turned 1 when baby 2 arrives
also my body is still used to being pregnant i think so my morning sickness isnt half as bad this time around!!
good luck wtih what you decide
Posted: Wed Mar 04, 2009 9:00 am
a bunch of us recently discussed this - seems like its a very common thing! As you can see, I also succumbed to the urge pretty quickly Isaac will be 16 months when baby girl turns up.
It IS hard, although I have SPD which makes it worse, so maybe not too bad otherwise. The first trimester is a bit of a 'mare cos you'll be SOOO tired, but there's no real problem with having babies close together
Good luck with your decision!
Posted: Mon Mar 23, 2009 11:01 pm
Heyi i have too felt abit broody and it does seem extremely common, my daughter is now 12 weeks and i have thought about it. I think its just what people would think thats making me not do it, although i had a period at 5/6 weeks post birth and haven't had one since which is worrying me abit as i still don't really think it would be a good time.
However it is completely up to you, as long as you're happy. I would love my babies close together though as there was only 11 months between me and my sister (we're the same age for two weeks) and we're really close, almost like twins so i would like it just not right now i don't think but i am broody haha xxx