Posted: Tue Jun 17, 2008 8:19 pm
Post subject: Something to share
Hi, I dont know how appropriate for you lovely ladies but I have been lighting a candle on a website called :www.gratfulness.org/candles. Its a website lots of people use to remember their loss. I find it helpful. Not for everyone but special for me. I currently light mine under the ept group but you can just light one in general, as special place to remember. Pupx
Posted: Tue Jun 17, 2008 8:26 pm
thank you pup..(((hugs))) i will definitely go view xx
i know it sounds weird but when i m/cd i found a web site that did jewellery and i brought a necklace with a pendant for the month i m/cd. i then added to it for the ectopic, i never wear the necklace and its kept safe in my jewellery box in the pouch ( with a prayer) that they send with it. It did not cost much, it may not be everyones thing but thought id post the addy. xx
p.s. you can also leave messages and poems on there.
Posted: Tue Jun 17, 2008 10:19 pm
pup to be honest no i havent. im like so many on here that have lost a lil one...i cannot talk to family but can to strangers on here. after my e/p i didnt expect to get caught again and i resigned myself to only having my son who i adore and i guess i buried my head in sand over a lot of things including the e/p.
i visited a few web sites but only got as far as the home page as i got to teary, sounds really daft but its only since getting pregnant again i feel more that i can visit such web sites and look further than the home page.
i will go visit the e/p trust web site. xxxx
Posted: Wed Jun 18, 2008 8:29 am
it takes a lot of time I guess. My brother and sis-in-law took a year to be able to contemplate doing anything. They bought a year-old maple tree (v pretty) and a beautiful big pot for it to live in so they could always take it with them if they moved as a memorial to the twins. we also have 'memorial woods' at my Mum's farm, where any loved one who leaves us has a tree planted in their memory.
Posted: Wed Jun 18, 2008 8:52 am
Arr thats so lovely Devon. Its funny bromley early days after EP i was on the EP site then I had to back away and have since spent a lot of time here. Finding happiness listening to others happy stories and trying to stay pos. I just pop back sometime when I feel the need to. Take care all. Pupx