Posted: Tue Apr 14, 2009 12:48 pm
Post subject: I lost my baby and am so desperate to have another.
I lost my baby at 16 weeks on 14th Feb 2008.
I was so looking forward to being a mum.
To make matters worse my husband then left me for another woman only 3 weeks later.
It was the day before we buried the baby.
It was an extremely difficult time for me and resulted in me losing nearly 2 stone in weight
due to stress and being unable to eat.
I managed to get through things though and have met someone else.
I am very happy with the new man in my life but the desperation for wanting another child is taking over my life.
I don't seem to be having any luck getting pregnant and it's really taking it's toll on me.
I now am thinking that there is a problem with me.
I don't know if i'm ovulating and at present am waiting to see a doctor to discuss being tested.
People keep telling me stressing and thinking about it will effect things but I just can't get it off of my mind.
I just want to be a mum more than anything and at the moment I feel like i am being deprived of the experience.
Posted: Tue Apr 14, 2009 3:10 pm
Thank you for your kind reply.
I have been ttc since August and I know I am probably being impatient but despite only trying since then I've been longing for a baby for over a year before then.
It took me over 6 months to conceive the last baby so i've been wanting a baby for over 18 months now and still haven't got one.
It is so frustrating.
Is there any chance I may have got something wrong with my fertility as a result of losing the other baby?
Hormone imbalance or something?
Posted: Tue Apr 14, 2009 8:25 pm
thats proberly unlikely as you have managed to conceive b4..
if you are under alot of stress(which u prob are) some people do believe that this can make it longer to conceive..
have you been bd around the time u ovulate?
could also be that you are not ovulating..
have you had that checked out hun?
im sure the doctor can give you something to help you ovulate if you are not..x