Posted: Thu Feb 28, 2008 4:10 pm
Post subject: 10 weeks with first baby please help!
hi everyone, this site looks great lots of support and someone always seems to have an answer. i'm 10 weeks with first baby(very happy) but i've still not seen my midwife or had any ifo on scans and there are other people at work that have already had their midwife appointment and already had their scans by 10 weeks! why havent i? i'm booked in for 11th march ANOTHER 2 Weeks yet! is this normal i dont even know my due date.. i know you guess at it but nothing official, plus with my symptoms and the size of me already we think i might be a month further so i could be 3 months and have had no conatct with anyone. can anyone ease my worry????
Posted: Thu Feb 28, 2008 4:32 pm
we're only a bit confused because my last period was a very light bleed for only one day instead of my usual 3 days so we're wondering if i was already in the stages then and that last bleed was 21st dec.. think i'm just fretting because i want my scan so badly just to know everything is alright!!
Posted: Thu Feb 28, 2008 4:55 pm
Im from kent. were are u? i no what you mean, men don't really understand! im very worried about this pregnancy as we lost are first baby, he was born at 14weeks, and cant really talk to friends about my worries they don't really understand none of them have children x
Posted: Thu Feb 28, 2008 5:07 pm
i'm up in yorkshire but originally from cheshire i'm 24 partner is 34 getting married this summer very happy and he's brilliant he takes great care of us but i cant help feeling a little sad that my support network is back at home.. i'm so sorry about your other baby, i've lost 2 before one at 7 weeks the other at 20 weeks which was particularly traumatic as my milk came in afterwards etc! i'm worried too i think we're probably normal!! you can talk to me anytime
Posted: Fri Feb 29, 2008 7:54 pm
hi girls, sorry to hear your stories! im 19 and my partners 19 too both about to become 1st time parents!! we both been planning r birthday partys so he going out with the lads whilst i have a non alcaholic beach party lol!! its surpriseing tht u find out who your true friends are in times like this!! take care girls xx