Posted: Sat Sep 12, 2009 6:16 pm
Post subject: IVF Funding
Just thought i'd let you know that i have got funding for my only round of IVF!
Never thought it would happen, but my parents are going to lend us the money so we dont have to wait til next year, what with me being 39 in Dec
Let the stress begin!
Posted: Sun Sep 13, 2009 7:44 am
Oh Julie, that's fantastic news hun, well, I for one will be here to stress it out with you. Start getting that body into tip top condition so the embryo will have no choice but stick. Will be thinking of you and I hope that it all goes well, best of luck xx
Posted: Sun Sep 13, 2009 1:43 pm
Aww Thanks nutty and beaux
Not really looking forward to it - and i sometimes question myself - as in how will i feel if it fails? There is only one chance to get this right so here goes....I'm just wondering how lucky i am (havent been very lucky this year) as IVF worked 1st time when we had cameron but that was nearly 5 years ago now, and my eggs wont be as good.
Anyway, trying to stay +ve, cos it worked 1st time with cam, so why not again? The clinic will only put 2 embies back as i'm not 40, and the rules have changed and are very strict now to reduce multiple births - well i can understand not wanting triplets or more, but twins would be manageable! lol.
Posted: Sun Sep 13, 2009 4:46 pm
Hope you are feeling better? I've got the af from hell - early to add insult. we had a new mattress delivered sat - so i've been paranoid
Lets keep fx you get that bfp now honey as your tubes have had a hoover out
Your welcome hunni
Today i have been very emotional, why ? I have no idea lol
I went in with AF, but still bleeding a bit today. I'm just keeping an eye on things.
As after my HSG i ended up with an infection in my cervix
Good luck to us both eh hun
Not surprised you need a new mattress !!!
Tubal Reversal 17/7/2008
Always in my heart Shannon, 23/10/2007 ~ 27/11/2007
Posted: Sun Sep 13, 2009 5:01 pm
That's great news. I really hope it works 1st time for you, so that very soon you will be holding your baby in your arms.
I can understand the worries you have about it not working, I think they are perfectly natural and in a way it might be kind of a defence mechanism, as we try to prepare ourseves for the worst. However I have heard that they really stress the importance of keeping positive through the process, as being negative can give out harmful hormones.
I was told this week that IVF is my only option and I have had similar concerns to you.
Keep us posted about progress and hopefully we can help to keep your spirits up.
Take care. x
Posted: Sun Sep 13, 2009 5:15 pm
lol Rachel - yes - our old mattress was only 4 years old
Hi fc79 - i'm not sure when we will be starting yet - but it will be prob Oct/Nov - we cant afford another September birthday lol. (fx)
Thanks Ruby - I hope you get there too hun - and soon. xx
Anna hun - hope you are ok. xx