Posted: Wed Mar 19, 2008 11:08 am
Post subject: WHERE IS MY BABY????
Im going through a pretty rough time at mo, had a confirmed positive test on 6th march but due to pains on one side, i was taken to hospital where they done an internal scan but couldnt see anything in my tubes or uterus, i had bloods done and on 6th march hcg levels were 27.2 and retested on 8th march and hcg levels 87.4, i was told to ring back on 10th to see what hospital wanted to do, i rang and they said they were treating me for a pregnancy in an unknown location and leaving me until 20th march when they would scan me! i now have my scan tomorrow to confirm location of my pregnancy and i am terrified, i dont want to say goodbye i desperatly want to say hello, i know i cant change any outcome and what will be, will be....but i just wondered if anyone had any advice or knew of anyone thats gone through this. i am worried sick my baby will be in the wrong place and i will have to say goodbye. my u/s is booked for 11.15am UK time and I am a wreck at the moment!!!!!
Posted: Wed Mar 19, 2008 11:14 am
Hi Bloominglovely. You have obviously read my story as you sent me luch lovely wishes. Well yes this time was sad beyond words for me. But what I can say is that I had bleeding and pain in my previous two pregnancies and have two wonderful children from that. So try try try to stay positive. I have everything crossed for you. Nothing I will say will stop you worrying but not long now and hopefully with a big sigh of relief you will be back tommorrow would positive news. We will be here waiting. Good luck and grow baby grow! Pup1 X
Posted: Wed Mar 19, 2008 11:24 am
Post subject: 24 hours and counting down
thankyou, i am a wreck at mo, sitting here crying like an idiot as i type, i know i prob sound like a drama queen but i am really worried, i havnt had any bleeding or anymore pain other than crampy style pain but its just the not knowing thats crushing me, my fiance is so excited and keep talking about baby names and stuff and i just cant bring myself to get excited at the moment and i know that sounds horrible but i just cant let myself think of that at the moment if you know what i mean. i know that in 24 hours time we will know the outcome and im just so terrifed. when i read your post it really hit a nerve with everything that were going through at the moment too and i got so upset for you but also i got upset bcoz i kept thinking that might be me and im not ready, i keep saying to my fiance we have to prepare for both scenarios but he wont, he keeps saying everythings going to be okay and i know hes trying to be optimistic but i dont think he realises just how much this is all crushing me. i am so so so sorry for what happened to you, but i hope we can stay in touch x
Posted: Wed Mar 19, 2008 11:44 am
Hiya love, i went thorough the exact same thing!!! i had pain in my left side so i went to hospital-where i found out i was between 4 and 5 weeks pregnant!! they said they would treat it as an ectopic pregnancy as they didnt know where the baby was-they took my blood and i was re-tested a couple of days later and because my hcg levels had doubled they just assumed the baby was in the right place. i went for a scan on same day and you could see a tiny blob(luckily it was in the right place) been ok ever since!! you will prob have a positive outcome too, as your hcg levels have risen a lot too.
i wish you all the best. xxxx(congratulations by the way )
Posted: Wed Mar 19, 2008 1:54 pm
Posted: Wed Mar 19, 2008 2:20 pm
Post subject: Sorry!
I am so sorry bloominglovely that it hit a nerve with you. It wasnt meant to worry you or upset you. But to say you will worry and it cant come soon enough. BUT I also have two healthy children so things can work out well. I would love to keep in touch. Good luck, lots of positive wishes and grow baby grow!!!! Pup1 x