Posted: Wed Aug 20, 2008 7:38 pm
just a wee reply to say that i know how your feeling..
mine and stephens sex drives have never matched atall .. hes really high and im quite low ha! we would "have fun" most days or every few days:P and everynow and again we have a wee argument about it! but he dus understand after my bawling my eyes!!
but during my first trimester he was always sayin "oh you should be up for it by now.. such n such's gf was well up for it when she was so many weeks" and i got so upset i didnt talk to him for the whole day!! i thought i was bein unreasonble too, but i made him realise that i was tired feelin rotten and genaerally yukky and not in the mood for much.
your not the unreasonable one he is .. he dusnt understand how you are feelin and lookin after another child is hard work.
let him apologise to you then tell him strait!!
oh and your sex drive should pick up eventually!!
Posted: Thu Aug 21, 2008 3:37 pm
Posted: Thu Aug 21, 2008 5:39 pm
Sorry to hear you had a bad day, and sorry about your BF giving you such a hard time...as others said if you get to do it every other day, he should count himself lucky...I hope when he gets back from gym he will have thought this over and tell you what is really bothering him.