OMG i am so ungrateful.......

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Posted: Wed Aug 11, 2010 6:17 pm 
Post subject: OMG i am so ungrateful.......
After reading the 'sticky' on TTC long timers.... I have just come to realize that i must seem really selfish an ungrateful.
I have been trying to concieve since feb 2010 and with no luk. The First thing i come to realize is that its not even that long. Secondly i have got four beautil children and some people might say thats more than enough, why would you want more??????
Sori for that rant, but my point is i shouldn't get so hung up on not getting pregnant... When there is clearly many of you ladies that have been trying years and some av IVF while some av m/c...... I really really hope that all of you get your BFP and you have beautiful little babies to show x x x x

Love Sandi x x x
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Posted: Fri Aug 13, 2010 3:33 pm 
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hey Sandi,

I was ttc for 22 months and I just fell pg recently! When I started ttc I got very frustrated after a few months that nothing was happening, so your feeling are quite normal!
Everyone is different, some get pg the first time, some in their first 6 months and other it just takes a bit longer.

I went to a fertility doc and she said to me sure if it never happens sure you already have 1!! Evil or Very Mad That is not the point, I wanted another baby whether you have 1 or 5 isnt the point.
But the other side of that I can see the side for woman who are ttc their 1st!

Its a sensitive topic for all woman ttc no matter their length of time so dont beat yourself up about it.

Best of luck for you getting you bfp!

Very Happy

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Posted: Sun Sep 12, 2010 5:53 am 
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Hi Sandy Very Happy
I don't think your being selfish or ungrateful at all Very Happy . I'm ttc my 4th child after having my reversal in 08. My bairns are DS15,DD12 & DS 11 Very Happy . It doesn't matter how many bairns you already have,it's still an emotional rollercoaster either way but i can understand that it's harder for women ttc their 1st even though we all experience the pain when AF comes. You shouldn't be so hard on yourself Wink

Take care & sending plane loads of babydust to all ttc,we will get there in the end Wink
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Posted: Sat Oct 02, 2010 12:06 am 
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im exactly the same, ive only been trying for a few months, and that seems like forever!!!

babydust to everyone...however long weve been trying, we all deserve our babys! xx
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