does anybody know how to find a surragate mum

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pinky68
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Posted: Thu Nov 11, 2010 4:05 pm 
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hi

can anybody help

me and my husband are looking for a surragate mum , i have been looking on the internet for sites but i dont know if they are legit or not. i was wondering if anybodys know of anywhere or they could point me int the right direction as we are desperate i cant have children and tried ivf.

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Posted: Thu Nov 11, 2010 9:44 pm 
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I think maybe your 1st step would be to ask your GP or try IVF clinic for advice. Do you have a friend or family member who you can discuss this with.

For me, if my sister was in this situation i would help her. Im not saying to expect a family member to help or friend ,but you may be surprised at the outcome or the advice they may have.
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Posted: Tue Jan 11, 2011 2:32 pm 
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It is illegal for avertise A) for a surragate mother and B) to become a Surragate mother which kind of makes things a little hard. www.surrogacyuk.org is a good place to start and they may be able to help with a surrage mother.
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Posted: Mon Dec 17, 2012 4:15 pm 
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When I was looking at donating eggs, the hospitals & fertility clinics had different sections about people looking to donate eggs & become a surrogate. If I was to donate my eggs, I could request which couple they went to if I was a match for them. I dont know if this helps or not.
I dont think it is illegial to be a surrogate, it is illegial to pay someone to be a surrogate.
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Posted: Wed Aug 27, 2014 11:33 am 
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Pinky, the problems of looking for a surrogate mother are that there are a lot of cheaters and frauds. I cannot even imagine how to trust some strange woman from the forum my future baby or to give a cheater the only egg or embryo you have. I can advise you to contact the clinic, which will be responsible for selection of surrogate mother. I just contacted the clinic I chose and it was their job to select appropriate surrogate mother. Their responsibility was to check their health. They signed the agreement with her. My manager even was against our private communication with surrogate mother in order to prevent the possibility of pulling the money
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Posted: Wed Aug 27, 2014 11:34 am 
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Near a few days ago I have read the articles about frauds of surrogates. I think it is very dangerous to trust them. Don’t do it by yourself. It will be better if you spend the time looking for appropriate clinic. Check everything clinic proposes. Compare the variants and packages. There are many options and don’t forget about success rate. And it would be better to contact some couples who had the program in clinic you will choose.
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Posted: Thu Aug 28, 2014 9:58 am 
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Hi, pinky 68! To find a good surrogate mother is very difficult. I can understand you well because several years ago I was in the same situation. You should first of all decide whether you want commercial or altruistic surrogacy. If you are considering altruistic surrogacy it complicates your searchers. There is no a big choice of surrogate mothers. Because in case of altruistic surrogacy they don’t have any guarantees. But if you want to do commercial surrogacy be aware that it is legal only in several countries. In this situation you should be ready to travel to other countries, visit different clinics. On the one hand, it is more difficult. You have to spend more time and maybe more time. But on the other hand, you have chance to do everything legally. But if you decide commercial surrogacy it is only via agencies or clinics. So it is very important to choose good clinic. Micy is right. There are a lot of cheaters and frauds. You can read on the Internet scandals with surrogate mothers in Thailand. If you know that story with baby Gammy. Despite the surrogacy is legal there it is a high risk to do surrogacy in Asian countries. And look at India. Surrogate mothers live in horrible conditions. My advice is choosing clinic that can you give you guarantee healthy surrogate mother.
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Posted: Thu Aug 28, 2014 9:59 am 
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Sammyjayneh3, you have mentioned the legality of being or paying to surrogate mother. As I have said there only a few countries. As far as I am concerned the commercial surrogacy is only legal in USA, Ukraine, Georgia, Mexico and India. Surrogacy in Thailand is being banned or some alterations in legislation occur now. One point is that the legality of surrogacy in the country where you can do it. But the other point is that you have to leave that country and return home. That’s why it is essential to know the entrance laws for newborn baby, how to register this baby.
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Posted: Wed Jan 14, 2015 8:42 am 
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Free Online Seminar! January 29, 2015

BioTexCom managers will answer all your questions concerning surrogacy and egg donation during the video – chat.
Reference for participance in webinar
English speaking managers of the Center for Human Reproduction BioTexCom will held the web conference on January 29, 2015 (Thursday) from 16:00 to 17:00 Kiev time (GMT + 2) which will take place on the clinic’s official web site. Meeting online in a real time is a unique opportunity for the infertile to get acquainted with the assisted methods of reproductive medicine, and ask any questions with the regards to the surrogacy, egg donation, procedure stages, donors’ selection, legal issues and many others. English-speaking managers who daily work with foreign clients and lead the programs will help you to understand all the tricks of modern reproduction. You need only to write your question in the chat.
Rules of participation in the webinar:
Visit the official website of the clinic BioTexCom http://mother-surrogate.info/;
Click on the box “webinar” on the home page;
Click on the link you will see after clicking on the “webinar” box;
Fill in your name;
Welcome! You are in the video – chat! Here you can write any question related to the programs of reproductive medicine, and our manager will answer you in the mode of video conferencing. Thus, we will see only question in the chat, and you will be able to see and hear the manager and her answers.
NOTICE!!! The nearest BioTexCom Webinar will be held on January 29 , 2015, 16:00 – 17:00. Link to the participation in the online – seminar will be active only during this hour. Follow the latest clinic’s news and follow our webinar!
Feel free to ask your questions concerning our webinar biotexengland@yahoo.com
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Posted: Tue Feb 24, 2015 1:07 pm 
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Hi there
I will just want to share my opinion. I am not one of those infertile women who are already done with their surrogacy journey. I wish I would be… I am not even sure if I have started it yet. Well, more yes than no. I am on my road, just at the step of research. I did a lot of research, I don`t remember when was the last time I was looking for something so hard. But for the moment I read a lot of stories, articles, review… Well all what was possible to find on the internet. And I do not thing that it is such a good idea to look for a surrogate by your own. I think it is better to contact the place where you want to do the procedure and ask them in which way they do it. I visited few clinics and almost all of them work with some agency. There are clinics which have kind of a personal agencies. I mean that kind of agency which works only with a certain clinic. There are so many legal peculiarities concerning the surrogate. I guess in order to protect yourself it is better not to find by your own the woman who will gestate for you… That is just my point of view.
Good luck ladies!
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Posted: Wed Mar 18, 2015 8:27 am 
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Free Online Seminar! March 19, 2015, 16:00-17:00. BioTexCom managers will answer all your questions concerning surrogacy and egg donation during the video - chat. Read more (click on the link WEBINAR)

http://expertsystem.ru/webinars/#join:tbbde65eb-6466-47d7-8dd4-e028f88bdd5c
English speaking managers of the Center for Human Reproduction BioTexCom will held the web conference on March 19, 2015 (Thursday) from 16:00 to 17:00 Kiev time (GMT + 2) which will take place on the clinic’s official web site. Meeting online in a real time is a unique opportunity for the infertile people to get acquainted with the assisted methods of reproductive medicine, and ask any questions with the regards to the surrogacy, egg donation, procedure stages, donors’ selection, legal issues and many others. English-speaking managers who daily work with foreign clients and lead the programs will help you to understand all the tricks of modern reproduction. You need only to write your question in the chat.
Rules of participation in the webinar:
1. Visit the official website of the clinic BioTexCom http://mother-surrogate.info/;
2. Click on the box "webinar" on the home page;
3. Click on the link you will see after clicking on the "webinar" box;
4. Fill in your name;
5. Welcome! You are in the video - chat! Here you can write any question related to the programs of reproductive medicine, and our manager will answer you in the mode of video conferencing. Thus, we will see only question in the chat, and you will be able to see and hear the manager and her answers.

NOTICE!!! The nearest BioTexCom Webinar will be held on March 19, 20115, 16:00-17:00, local Ukrainian time. Link to the participation in the online - seminar will be active only during this hour. Follow the latest clinic’s news and follow our webinar!
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