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titikimm
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Posted: Fri Apr 29, 2011 4:08 pm 
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Hello, Im new here and was hoping to get some advice and or support. Im only 15 years old and im four months pregnant, due in October. Im doin adoption becuase its whats best for my baby. It will be open so ill get pictures and things. Its just hard to deal with sometimes when everyone is saying keep your child, but they dont understand i cant. Unless they gave me the money i would need and a place to stay. It gets to me sometimes...

I would hope one day the baby knows about me and i could meet him/her...but im not sure how that would go. Oh and i still consider myself to be a mom.
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Posted: Fri Apr 29, 2011 4:24 pm 
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Aww honey i really feel for you, remember no one can judge you till they've walked a mile in your shoes. Ofcourse you are a mum and always will be. I dont know anything about adoption really but i have heard of open adoption and i think it is good that the mother is able to see pictures of the child growing up. Dont be hard on yourself, i think that you are being really brave and its a very admirable thing that you are doing. Ofcourse you need to be 100% sure whatever you decide in the end but whatever you do choose to do im sure you will have your baby's and your best interests at heart. xxx
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Posted: Fri Apr 29, 2011 4:29 pm 
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thanks so much. everyone tells me not to let it get to me but it just does sometimes. i am 100% that im doing adoption, its just hard sometimes. and i hope if my child knows someday that they understand..
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Posted: Fri Apr 29, 2011 4:34 pm 
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With it being an oen adoption do you get to meet the adoptive parents before you have the baby? if so you could tell them your concerns about the baby knowing about you when he/she grows up. Also can they pass on letters etc from you? xxx
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Posted: Mon May 02, 2011 4:19 pm 
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yes i know the parents. they are actually friends of my aunts so the mom goes with me to the doctors and they are involved and stuff.
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