Posted: Wed Oct 22, 2008 9:50 am
I never gave it any thought before... But recently a family member found out that they may not be able to carry a child. This is a very close relative, and i think that should she ever need me, i would help in which ever way possible. I know it would be so hard to give up a baby, but i wouldnt want her to find another surrogate and have to worry about things like, is she looking after herself- eating well, no alcohol, no smoking ect. She could see me daily and be apart of the pregnancy, and then at the end of all of that, i would still get to see the baby all the time.
Posted: Wed Oct 22, 2008 10:24 am
Posted: Sat Oct 25, 2008 11:43 pm
before i deffinately wanted to do this, but with being pregnant and having the problems i did, i can only have c-sections, therefore advised to only have 3 max, so i wouldn't as i think maybe eventually i would like two more children myself, in the next ten years so i wouldnt want to give one away to risk my health and babies health if i ever wanted another..
Posted: Wed Nov 05, 2008 12:13 pm
thank you Claire
my answer is DEFINATELY YES!!!!! lol
i'm a surrogate (straight, my egg intended fathers sperm) and i've known for years it was something i would do. i know at the end of the pregnancy i would be happy to give the baby "back" to the parents as i was only looking after it for them till he was ready to be here in the outside world.
ex straight surrogate with 2 surrobaby angels, it all got too much in the end.
Posted: Thu Nov 06, 2008 11:48 am
Wow what an amazing person macca. Not usually a gushy person but reading your posts really choked me up! What an amazing thing you are doing. I cant express how it makes me feel when i read about surrogacy. I would love to have the courage to give someone the chance to have a baby but i just dont think i could. It is something i have thought about a great deal but i always think i could not give the baby up.
You sound truly happy in your posts to be doing this and the couple you are doing this for are very lucky to have found you. I hope it all goes well for you all. x
My babies are growing up!