Posted: Wed Feb 08, 2012 10:03 am
I'm new to this and having read some of your posts i feel very comfortable in joining for support.
My partner and I are trying to conceive and it is proving to be tricky. I stopped taking contraception last year and still have had no luck.
My rant is Why does life seem to be so unfair? So many people fall pregnant by accident and there are so many unwanted children in the world and yet people who want nothing more than to bring a new life into this world struggle.
I have two younger sisters both of which fell pregnant during their early teens and chose to terminate these pregnancies. I however fell pregnant last year and yet suffered a miscarriage, now we are making a conscious effort to get pregnant and it just isn't happening. Finding this very frustrating.
Sorry if this is a bit heavy for my first rant as i said I'm new to this.
Posted: Wed Feb 08, 2012 11:28 am
It is so unfair isn't it just makes you sad when you want something more than anything and you see this wonderful gift being given to people who either just aren't bothered either way or don't actually want a baby at all
No such thing as too much of a rant by the way thats what this section was put her for so we could blow off steam xxx
Posted: Wed Feb 08, 2012 6:47 pm
I think every woman trying to conceive feels just as you do. I had a late period last month and my husband and I were so hopeful that we were in fact pregnant...the day my period finally decided to arrive, I was so emotional and heartbroken. When I grabbed my phone to call my husband to let him know that AF had arrived; I saw two text from two good friends letting me know they were pregnant. I couldn't help but feel like I was being picked on!
Posted: Thu Feb 09, 2012 11:21 am
It's nice to know I'm not alone in feeling like this. I have also had three friends this week which have either had a baby or have announced they are pregnant and I can't help but feel jealous which seems to overshadow how happy i am for them. (Makes me feel like a really bad person)
Think it's also difficult because my partner and i have decided not to tell people that we are trying as it sometimes adds further pressure (and we put enough on ourselves already lol)
Anyway just having a down week i think so i thank you for letting me share it with you, thank you also for your supportive posts in return.
Posted: Fri Feb 10, 2012 9:59 am
It's great that you can relate to my post, finding this website really supportive and encouraging. I really hope your ovulation kit proves to be a benefit and helps with conception.
Really hoping this is a good year with lots of wanted babies being born. Good luck to you and your partner.. xxx
Posted: Fri Feb 10, 2012 6:04 pm
Yeah and some girls are selfish enough to just "accidentally" fall pregnant in order to trap a partner into a relationship.
This world seems so unfair it makes me want to cry and it seems that only people who try their hardest to get something in life seem to suffer.
Posted: Thu Feb 16, 2012 9:17 pm
Yeah i know what you mean. One of our friends has just had a baby girl so we went shopping for a present and looking around the baby clothes in matalan was like torture. I just hope we dont have too long to wait until we are looking for clothes for our own baby.
You're not alone in wanting one lol i want one too....right now please. x
Posted: Fri Feb 17, 2012 8:56 pm
I'm in need of some support ladies. I had a huge row with my partner this morning and now he has gone away on a stag do weekend and i wont see him until sunday.
The row was because i asked him how much he wants a baby. The problem was he couldnt answer me and as we're trying i got really upset. It made me feel like we shouldnt be trying yet and that he doesnt understand how i want this more than anything else in the world.
I'm not sure if i over reacted as my period is due next wednesday and so i could be suffering the dreaded PMS. It has really upset me and even though i have had all day to think about it i cant say i overreacted.
Am i being irrational???