ONE TUBERS THREAD
  Posted: Mon Oct 31, 2011 12:28 pm
Post subject:  .. I wont i promise.. I run around all over the forum.. I am sure it makes me Doolally XX_________________ Tubal Reversal 19/7/10 Angel Baby due 18/5/2011 (ectopic) Angel Baby due 25/1/2012 (m/c) Angel Baby due 21/6/2012 (m/c) All 3 much loved and wanted xx Posted: Mon Oct 31, 2011 1:58 pm
Post subject: Nat I have no idea what his thoughts are, we had discussed that we would go for the treatment before he left fingers crossed that we would get our bfp just before he goes cos meaning id have been due just after he gets back and he would then have 2 months off work, and we had agreed that and then he just says id rather wait til i get back.
He just doesnt understand why im so bothered by this, the only thing he has said is that if died he didnt want to leave me to raise another child by myself  and im just not thinking like that.
I was thinking that if we were lucky enough for it to work then then i would at least have the pregnancy to focus on and take my mind off of the fact that he is out there! I dunno maybe im being completly selfish but im just very aware that im not gettin any younger and neither are my eggs lol xx Posted: Mon Oct 31, 2011 2:06 pm
Post subject: Totally see where you are coming from Tash..
my eggs are definately fossilised.. just hope there are some good ones left!! XX _________________ Tubal Reversal 19/7/10 Angel Baby due 18/5/2011 (ectopic) Angel Baby due 25/1/2012 (m/c) Angel Baby due 21/6/2012 (m/c) All 3 much loved and wanted xx Posted: Mon Oct 31, 2011 2:09 pm
Post subject:  room 10.. lorraine.. you crack me up!! ... xx_________________ Tubal Reversal 19/7/10 Angel Baby due 18/5/2011 (ectopic) Angel Baby due 25/1/2012 (m/c) Angel Baby due 21/6/2012 (m/c) All 3 much loved and wanted xx Posted: Mon Oct 31, 2011 2:31 pm
Post subject: Tash I'd have a talk with him, put your cards on the table and explain your reasons for wanting to do it before he goes , maybe it is playing on his mind about the risks out there, men aren't usually good at expressing themselves and men in the army especially seem to think they have to play it macho and can't admit to being worried about anything so if he's telling you then it must be bothering him ,of course you don't want to think about the risks but for him he has to really , he'll have been getting it drummed into him
 If you can tell him you're happy to go for the treatment and take that risk though it might make him reconsider , he might feel in some way as though he's protecting you  You're not being selfish and being pregnant would probably make the time pass quicker and I can see what you mean about not getting any younger my biological clocks ticking so loud it gives me a bl**dy headache  Posted: Mon Oct 31, 2011 3:32 pm
Post subject: larlar69 wrote:
its that way >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> now move it
... Yes sir!!! (mock salute) xx_________________ Tubal Reversal 19/7/10 Angel Baby due 18/5/2011 (ectopic) Angel Baby due 25/1/2012 (m/c) Angel Baby due 21/6/2012 (m/c) All 3 much loved and wanted xx Posted: Mon Oct 31, 2011 5:16 pm
Post subject: I worry about having another ectopic.. and losing the tube.
_________________ Tubal Reversal 19/7/10 Angel Baby due 18/5/2011 (ectopic) Angel Baby due 25/1/2012 (m/c) Angel Baby due 21/6/2012 (m/c) All 3 much loved and wanted xx Posted: Mon Oct 31, 2011 5:44 pm
Post subject: I worry about it all the time, i know that if i did fall pg naturally it will prob be another ep.
When I had my hsg the tube did fill but only if they rolled me onto my side so im guessing id be more likely to have another ep if I did fall naturally. Although it has been almost a year since my last mc i really dont think it will happen at all on its own 
xx Posted: Mon Oct 31, 2011 5:48 pm
Post subject: angelcake71 wrote:
I worry about having another ectopic.. and losing the tube.
Thats what scares me, I just feel really sad that the joy we should feel when we get a bfp has been taken away. The thought just feels me with such panic and fear. _________________ Ttc since December 2007!
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