Posted: Wed Mar 14, 2012 10:29 am
Post subject: 6 months today..
Posted: Tue Apr 26, 2016 11:17 am
Hi, I am very sorry for your loss.
It s good that youíve posted here and try to reach out. Maybe it helps to see that sadly we are so many but we can support each other. I remember me "forced" my friend to cry as she was trying to deny the importance of what happened.
Any remembrance or ritual might help as well, I think.
Maybe donít force yourself for baby showers and so on until you feel actually happy to participate. I was always feeling sick when I had to visit a pregnant friend. (I have 4 friends pregnant!) And I am not lying so much anyway, I felt sick to my stomach but I pretend I had a cold). I couldnít put on my happy face as it was too hard.
To try again... Often there is that one miscarriage and then the next pregnancy is good. I donít know if I was helpful here. I hope you feel better soon, day by day a little bit. You will be ok eventually, no matter how long it takes.
Take care! Xx