Posted: Thu Mar 29, 2012 1:44 pm
I agree Liberty and nat, some of us do not have the privalege of being able to stay at home full-time with their kids and have to work, which I actually enjoy as it gives me the opportunity to socialise with adults. We are not palming our kids off, we are providing for them.
LOL me too. I love the chance to use my brain again and I am lucky because I get the school holidays. I could not be a SAHM and I don't think that makes me a bad mother. Neither does the fact I often have to work at home in the evenings and at the weekend. In fact, I feel that I'm instilling a work ethic in my son. Not a criticism of anyone who does stay at home - I'm just not cut out for it. My ideal would be to work 2 days a week but that's never going to happen. Have to say that even if I was a SAHM I would put Jamie in nursery for a couple of sessions a week because I really do think it does them good
Posted: Thu Mar 29, 2012 7:16 pm
Haha Liberty me too. I think I would crack up if I was a sahm I work 3 days week 2 in the office and one at home. My lo loves pre-school and asks to go and goes to a child minder 1 day a week ad loves her and calls her nanny and then goes to my sisters one afternoon and loves that as she gets to play with her cousins. Hey but each to their own
Posted: Sat Mar 31, 2012 9:23 am
fine u lot like to work and im not on benift and i dont have a high paid partner so lay off that one yeah i love my kid and i was brough up u have a kid u look after it u dont fit ure life around ure kid u fit theres around ures and yeah nathan will go to nursery and yeah i will miss im not a mum who has other people to look after their kid so i have done it on my own so i have got set in my ways. i dont have a ready made family around to take nathan if i need a breAK instead i suck it up and get on not saying mum who have a family or friends to look after their kids r bad but i dont have that so me letting nathan go to nursery will be great fun for hima nd i know he will love it i saw that the other day. but to me i have had him solely every day so me letting go will be hard but not once did i say i wont do it because i know i will i just want the best for my kid and yeah i did ask for ure opinions and i got them certanily not in the way i have had before in the past but hey sue me.
let me clear up i dont think if u go bck to work ure bad mum rock on u for wanting some ADULT company. i dont need that i dont need all that aspect of that part of my life right now which obviously to some people on here thats weird or strange but right now i am so young that my son is my world till he goes to school and nursery and i have spoke to several people in authority and he will not be put into school with the kids that if he had been defered entry to school that where there the year before he got defered so basically he would not skip a year as someone said not sure what school would do that.
mabe asking u lot want a gd idea we all parent diffrently but in my eyes my way is fone nathan will go to nursery and will go to school life my life me in my head life my past and u would have the same feelings i dont want my child to feel like i did ast school dont want history to repeat itself and plz dont start my saying by him going in early will stop history repaeting itself or that i cant life my like through my kid i know that trust me i know reply to this if u want or dont u all seem to know be having ure on little debate against me so god know how many women against one nice thought this was a support thing im not saying dont give ure opinion i just want to know whether other people had defered their kid not how u all feel about my parenting