AskBaby Talk > IVF & Sterilisation Reversal > Getting Pregnant After Sterilisation Reversal Part 13..
Posted: Sun Nov 04, 2012 1:48 pm
HOW IS EVERYONE DOING?
IM FEELING A LITTLE DEPRESSED
ALL I HAVE BEEN DOING THE LAST COUPLE OF DAYS IS CRYING. NOTHING TO BE SAD ABOUT BUT ANYTHING CAN JUST SET ME OFF... I WAS CUTTING THE GRASS YESTERDAY AND I CRIED THE WHOLE TIME I WAS ON THE LAWN MOWER...A FRIEND OF MINE AT WORK JUST FOUND OUT SHE WAS PREGNANT AND THAT MADE ME CRY NOT THAT IM NOT HAPPY FOR HER BUT SAD ITS NOT ME ... DIDNT REALIZE THAT THIS WHOLE PROCESS CAN BE SO DEPRESSING AT TIMES..
I DONT WANT TO BOTHER MY OH WITH MY SADDNESS SO I ACT LIKE NOTHING IS WRONG WHEN IM AROUND HIM.. MAYBE THATS NOT A GOOD THING.... I JUST WANT A BABY SO BAD RIGHT NOW
SORRY TO VENT THIS EARLY BUT I FIGURED IF I TALLKED ABOUT WITH U ALL I WOULD FEEL BETTER...
Posted: Sun Nov 04, 2012 4:20 pm
I always seem to o/v on the rt which is my good side
Thank for the price guide will see what the cons has to say later in the mth
Shellypenton HUGS HUNI I know excatly where you are coming from only this am I had the silent cry as inside im breaking and no one truely knows how your fealing Ive tried many times telling my O/H How I feal but he doesnt understand his reply is you carnt see what you have got and you always want more I know hes right but I could punch him at times You Rant away huni were ere to support each other
Posted: Mon Nov 05, 2012 11:31 am
Hi Ladies hope your all well havnt been on for a while. Ok so af arrived 4 days early last month. I'm normally between a day and 2 days late. Last few days I have had very sore boobs and sick feeling. I know im building myself up for a big let down like I do every month but with af being early can I test early or do I still go by same date. Oh by the way I havnt been using ovulation tests or nothing so not sure when I ovulated. Thanks girls xx
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Posted: Wed Nov 07, 2012 7:52 am
Morning ladies hope you are all well. It's been almost 4 weeks since I had my operation. I wokeep up this morning to notice that there was a bit of weeping from my wound. Its the first it's happened since I got my staples out the week after the operation. Now I was wondering the ladies who got there bfp after their operation did this happen to you? Me personally haven't had a bfp yet and af is due the beginning of next week but have a few symptoms that could be promising or could just be my body playing tricks on me. Any advice would be appreciated. Xx
Posted: Thu Nov 08, 2012 8:04 am
Could be anything Shelly ? Maybe you have a bit of water retention that can sometimes ooze from your skin if you have an wound thats not healed
Can't see it being BFP related , but I know after my Op I hoped every little thing was BFP related
Jobleb I'd go off your normal cycle too, but then test again in a week if still no AF, its hard because often your cycle can change after the reversal Mine went from 30 days to between 28 and 36 but because I ov tested I at least knew when AF was due , FX she stays away for you xx
I've not been on for a few days as my emotions caught up with me think I was in denial about what I'd been told and was so caught up in the idea of TTC this month and getting that July baby that I couldn't quite let go of that now i'm 11 DPO though and getting all the tell tale signs that AF will be here on monday its really hit me that I won't get that BFP this month and in fact won't ever get that BFP
Did have a conversation with OH the other night just to sound him out on IVF and he's not interested
I suspected he wouldn't be, he said if it had happened naturally thats one thing, but now after so long trying and us not getting any younger and the kids getting older (our youngest starts secondary school next september)and the fact we'd have to wait at least 4-6 months to save again anyway ,by which point I'd be 43 with less chance of it working he just feels the time has passed
So since monday I've been having to come to terms with it never happening for us
Not helped by having a small bleed on saturday which for some reason got my hopes up (of course I instantly thought implant bleed despite knowing its not possible )so I've been kicking myself for being so stupid ever since
I think I just need to get rid of all things TTC related, throw myself into Christmas and trying to pass my exams in January and (try to) forget we ever had the reversal or tried for a baby
I honestly feel like I've just wasted the last 2 1/2 years of my life
So if i'm not on thats why , although i'm sure I'll still pop on sometimes to see how you're all doing
Good luck to everyone TTC xxxxx
Posted: Thu Nov 08, 2012 8:46 am
Morning ladies. Well went to see the nurse yesterday and it turns out there is a small hole in my wound stupid me thought it was just a bit of thstd blood because it was black and hats what it looked like lol. Anyways have any of you ladies tried soy isoflavones? I've been reading about it online and was considering giving it a go as there is a lot of good results with it. Xx
Posted: Thu Nov 08, 2012 9:24 am
Post subject: hello everyone
Just thought I would say hi, havent posted for a while. Life has changed for me alot...
Now divorced, broke up with hubby 18 months ago. Am with someone else and have been for over a year.
He has no kids and is 37 so my toy boy we have spoke about ivf in the future as I still have never fallen pregnant, but they did say the one tube I have, have lots of scar tissue aand is blocked . Does anyone know if we would get funding with ivf. I already have 3 kids, but him none, I live in West Berkshire.
big hugs to you all
Ectopic Pregnancy, lost right tube 7/4/2010
Posted: Thu Nov 08, 2012 5:19 pm
Not likely Lisa as they've tighten up the rules recently ( I know at least one person on here who's had funding withdrawn because she has a child from a previous relationship) , in most areas if even one of you has kids then you won't get NHS help, in some areas funding has been cut completely for IVF, the best place to ask is your GP or look online for you area ?
I'm in the same boat, one tube completely blocked would love a shot at IVF but realistically at my age the odds aren't great and the OH doesn't want to risk it as its so expensive and not much chance of success, but if we had no kids together i'm sure we'd have to give it a shot xx
Posted: Fri Nov 09, 2012 11:23 am
sorry to hear that Lisa.. Good luck hunni xx
Aww Nat.. I just want to send you some ((HUGS)) I know how much you would have loved another.. still keeping my FX that it happens for you...xx
Lilemm Meesh and Mand your babies are all growing so fast..I hope things are easier for you now!! xx
Anna.. so sorry that it hasnt happened for you yet.. you are still young tho so habg in there.. xx
Shelly P hope you wrent affected by the hurricane and ar doing ok xx
busy getting ready for xmas.. selling like mad on ebay.. have also managed to sell our Toyota Yaris.. as I only really bought it for if we had a baby! ... so thats helped alot with paying for Florida! .. have now booked our accomodation.. cant wait!! ..
Nat have you booked a holiday to Florida yet hun?? if you have the money then do it, as it will give you something nice to look forward to and plan.. I think you need that at the moment.. I had such a lovely time in Cyprus.. with just my hubby and no kids to worry about!! and I know if we had had a baby in 2011/2012 we wouldnt have gone to Cyprus or be going to Florida next year.. XX
Tubal Reversal 19/7/10
Angel Baby due 18/5/2011 (ectopic)
Angel Baby due 25/1/2012 (m/c)
Angel Baby due 21/6/2012 (m/c)
All 3 much loved and wanted xx
Posted: Fri Nov 09, 2012 7:45 pm
ANGLECAKE NO WE ARE FINE IN LOUISIANA. NEW YORK IS WHERE IT WAS HIT HARD BY THE HURRICAINE. ITS SO SAD AND KNOW ALL TO WELL WHAT THEY ARE GOING THROUGH. THANK U FOR ASKING
TOOK A PRENANCY TEST AND IT WAS A BFN
I GO TO THE DR IN A FEW WEEKS TO GET ON CLOMID SO IM HOPING THAT WILL DO THE TRICK....
I STARTED GOING TO A YOGA CLASS AND I MUST SAY I REALLY ENJOYED IT A LOT. I AM GOING TO GO 2 TIMES A WEEK AND IM HOPE DOING THAT WILL RELIEVE SOME STRESS..
NAT HOW R U DOING?
PUMPKIN HOPE U R DOING GOOD!!
SHELLYrfc HOPE UR WOUND HEALS FAST...
HOPE U LADIES HAVE A WONDERFUL DAY......
Posted: Fri Nov 09, 2012 11:10 pm
Sorry not been on ere for a while, busy tryin to sort things out after the weddin.
It's the 3rd anniversary since my op so been feelin very low and still not heard anythin from the appeal so i think this is finally the end of the road for us, not sure wether we're gunna go down the ivf route
Hope everyone is ok?? Have i missed anythin excitin???
Me 44 DH 48
Reversal op 24/11/09
Posted: Fri Nov 16, 2012 9:40 pm
I finished my antibiotics and have had my swabs redone fingers crossed they come back clear I picked off the gel in tesco I was so embarrassed as the check out woman started reading the back of the box
If my swabs are clear I have my X-ray with the dye stuff to see if my tubes are blocked just after my next af visit. My consultant gave me six months worth of clomid but told me not to use it on cycle I'm having my X-ray on
How is every one Iv put a link on my Facebook page please take a look it will bring a smile to your faces
Posted: Sat Nov 17, 2012 8:57 am
Morning ladies. How are we all. Not been on for a while. Well I'm out this month as the witch showed up 2 days ago. I thought she would. I have decided to give soya isoflavones ago this month to see how I get on with that as I have read so many great reviews and success stories about it. Xx