Posted: Thu Feb 28, 2013 8:35 pm
Oh I'm sorry FC and I don't know what to say except its not over for 2 more days, they could be later implanters, and each preg is different. I'm not trying to give you false hope though.
Just take some time away from google like you said, and from here. But just know we are thinking of you and if it is a bfn then you will need time to get your head around it, try and move on, and maybe pray for a natural miracle. Can you plan a break/holiday for some time away if needed.
Posted: Thu Feb 28, 2013 9:55 pm
Well ladies not long got back from my app was 5.30pm birmingham womens
Not sure how I feal to be honest they said its 35% sucess rates then went onto tell
us the things that can go wrong ... They said there is only a very few women that have any eggs to freeze . I GUESS I just thought id have some left over as dont have good fealing that its going to work first time .expecially after they said this eve they only put one back if your under the age of 37 apparently is a new guidline .
I guess my head just full of alot of info this eve and to top it off hubby and i had falling out earlier today So that always upsets me and plays on my mind for a few days
Posted: Thu Feb 28, 2013 10:22 pm
I don't get why it's like a postcode lottery, I have had two put back in and I'm 29 :/ it's so unfair, it shoul be the same everywhere!
There is a lot that can go wrong but think of the final outcome if it works. I don't know your situation but I wish you luck and hope whatever you decide works for you x
Posted: Thu Feb 28, 2013 10:47 pm
Quinny, 1 is the new guideline for all regardless of age. I would have been all do two until attending that info day last Saturday & they showed the stats of problems with 2. One girl recounted her story where she to treatment in the US & put 4 back. Lost 2, & the other two were born with physical problems due to being squashed in the womb as there were 4 fighting for space etc.......
FC I know how you are feeling & i guess yo know your own body etc but try & stay positive until you get that definitive test. You never know.....
Nutty, still on a high for you, it's wonderful! Is this your 4th attempt? Maybe we will both be lucky. Sprinkle some of that baby dust my way please!
Hello to everyone else, hope you are all ok today, even all the stalkers!
Posted: Fri Mar 01, 2013 8:53 am
Quinny, they went over the same stuff with me. I think it's so u know what u r getting into. I think I thought it would be some miracle cure before. As Faye says think of the outcome if it does work. Someone on here gave me good advice, and said try to keep balanced, and not swing too much one way or the other. It is hard and some days you will feel more positive than others. I know for me I thought I would always wonder what if if we didn't try. It is a lot to take in and I hope u managed to get a good sleep on it.
Fc really hope it isn't over for u. Will be thinking of u. Xx
Hope everyone else is well.
Posted: Fri Mar 01, 2013 10:34 am
Posted: Fri Mar 01, 2013 11:11 am
Thankyou hun well had good night sleep feal much
better . have called bwh this am and decided go for it
we have consent signing on the 27th march then its all go from there going be put
on long protocol 4amps per day due to low AMH
carnt belive its finaly happening
Good luck hun.fix everything goes well.xxxx
Posted: Fri Mar 01, 2013 11:50 am
Morning ladies, Have tested again today and first response is darker and there's a nice strong cross on the clear blue test too Still doesn't stop me worrying, every time I get any kind of cramp it puts me into panic mode. Have been to collect private prescription today for more cyclogest we got them in sainsburys. I cannot believe the difference in price - our clinic charges £24 per box so the six boxes we got today would have cost £144! in sainsburys it cost us £63.33!! What a saving!!
Fc how are you today? I feel so bad for you because I know how hard it is to see other people get their bfp and you dont x
Ttc since December 2007!
Posted: Fri Mar 01, 2013 4:41 pm
Hi, as expected af arrived this morning, so its all over.
I was upset this morning but with a little one you have to pick yourself up and carry on. I spent the day with my mum and we talked lots, also talked about it to my sister and a friend which all made me feel so much better.
Trying to see the positives and be thankful for everything we have, going to book a holiday in the sun and get all the vitamins and supplements to see if we can improve dh's sperm count and who knows over the next few years a miracle might just happen.
Its a very strange feeling as I always imagined myself having 3 or 4 children and now I have to kind of grieve for that lost future, but at the same time I feel so lucky and blessed to have a loving, kind, supportive husband and one PERFECT little boy that I get to spend all my time with.
Thank you all for your support, but I guess I'm back to the TTC board now!!
Claire, I really am so happy for you, and I really wish for you to enjoy this pregnancy and have a lovely healthy child.
I will pop in to catch up on all your progress and try and give help and answer any questions if possible.
Good luck to you all on your journeys