Posted: Mon Nov 19, 2012 1:22 pm
Post subject: Back here, big decision made x
Well after getting my BFP in October I'm back here after my 3rd miscarriage
I really need to give my body time and I'm emotionally all over the place, after my second miscarriage I just wanted to be pregnant again so I spent the following 4 months peeing on sticks and stressing out myself and DH, I was a nightmare!
Anyway, I've got two girls, 13 and 2 and I want them to have a lovely Christmas without having a mental mommy!
I have decided to wait till at least feb before trying again, I need to give my body (and head) time to get over my loss before trying again.
And I am going to try the 'au natuel' approach, no peeing on sticks, no temp testing, just going to enjoy dtd and see if the no stressing approach will work!!
Also I WILL NOT do a pregnancy test until my period is a week late
Posted: Mon Nov 19, 2012 5:19 pm
That's exactly what i did. I had 2 mc's in 4 months so said to hubby i was giving up trying "properly" and if it happened then it happened. It was actually really nice not jumping on him cos i was ovulating etc, it felt like we were cos we wanted to, not cos the timing told us to. I felt pregnant the month after i last miscarried and I've now got a beautiful little girl who will be 2 in Jan xx