KathG
Senior Member
Joined: 06 Apr 2011
Posts: 299

My husband is driving me nuts. Soz to moan but need to get a few things out and dont want to talk to friends or family because dont want them to think badly of him.
We got married two months ago and since then (and maybe a little before) its like he has stopped trying and just started acting like a moody teenager. He never thinks about me or does anything nice (the odd wee I love you text). Tonight I let our LO have some nappy off time before putting his PJs on, just to get some air round his skin.... anyway I noticed he had done a wee because the back of his vest was wet. We were walking round the livingroom trying to find the wee but couldnt see anything - I thought this was funny. Just the fact that we were looking for a wee. Anyways he starts moaning about how I need to stop this and he should be getting changed upstairs on his changing table and nowhere else, the whole house will stink of pee and its will be my fault, maybe it was the way I was brought up but it wasnt acceptable to him. bla bla. So I had a go at him back told him to get a grip it wasnt a big deal then it was tit for tat insults back and forth. Now I just feel angry and fed up.
Now we have started arguing over christmas. I work roughly every second year. This year I will be working so he is taking our baby to his mums. On boxing day my family have always had a big get together and he is going to take the baby this year (I am working boxing day too). Now he is saying next year will be his families turn for boxing day, but his family have never down anything on boxing day so why pick that day to spend with them could have said christmas eve. With me working I have little time with my family over the festive season as it is and he is trying to take half of all furture boxing days away just because he thinks he can. He has never went out his way to see his familiy on boxing day up until now. makes me think I have married a monster who doesnt care about me my feelings of what I want.