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charlene258
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Posted: Sun Dec 09, 2012 7:46 am 
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So I'm being induced next Monday iv had a good pregnancy apart from the beginning when things were touch and go and also now having to be on steriods and SPD but baby wise he's been nice and healthy. I feel as tho I'm pushing my luck! I've got two kids already and I had them naturally with no problems apart from tearing bad but again baby wise they were healthy babies so this time I feel like I've been so lucky with the other two that something is bound to go wrong with this labour what if I've been to lucky and this time everything will go wrong. My worst fear is loosing this baby in labour I mean how often does it happen?
I'm really sorry for the negative post but its playing on my mind and have no1 to talk to x
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Posted: Sun Dec 09, 2012 8:59 am 
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I think it's normal to feel like that. I think the same things.. like I had an easy quick homebirth with my first, I did bleed badly but they got it under control. My biggest fears this time are that I will die in labour or end up having to have a c section.. that's even if I get a homebirth this time. My reasoning for it this time is that I had it easy first time. I think you will be fine and maybe talk to your midwife about your fears. I asked mine about my fears and the reassured me and explained that myffeelings were normal. Hope you feel ok soon xx
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Posted: Mon Dec 10, 2012 7:35 pm 
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Aw thanx Ava's mummy x
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Posted: Mon Dec 10, 2012 7:49 pm 
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I hope you feel more positive soon Smile im terrified this baby is going to be awful health/sleep wise.. i had 2 very good babies with very good health so far and both slept really well and hardly cried.. this time next week youll be holding your baby and wondering why you were so worried Wink xx
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Posted: Mon Dec 10, 2012 8:44 pm 
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i worry about this one sleeping. alfie slept through the night from 12 weeks old but before that he used to wake every 2 hrs in the night and i was exhausted xx
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Posted: Mon Dec 10, 2012 9:28 pm 
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Thank u for ur replies I'm just so nervous :/
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Posted: Tue Dec 11, 2012 8:04 am 
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Arh hun at least you have got the ball rolling, i am defo going to be the last to have mine lol. I think its normal to worry hun, as long as you monitor movements etc, i am sure your baby will be fine hun. Try and think positive, if anything does go wrong you have all the professionals in the hospital around you.

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