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Posted: Mon Mar 25, 2013 9:41 am 
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Has anyone had spotting after sex and been fine. We had sex thursday night and then when I went to the loo after there was a few spots of blood on the tissue, I went twice more to check before I went to sleep and there was non the last time. But then yesterday after a poo there was a couple more spots. Have I got an irritable cervix? Has anyone had anything similar.
I have got a scan booked for wednesday. Ive had two mc so im just very scared.
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Posted: Mon Mar 25, 2013 7:18 pm 
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Sorry to hear that hun - I think having an irritated cervix is a very likely cause.

I know it's difficult to do anything other than worry and I hope your scan gives you a positive result!
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Posted: Mon Mar 25, 2013 8:03 pm 
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I got spotting all the time after sex with both. I also had severe cramps afterwards too but all has been fine with both of them. Sill worth getting it checked though xx
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Posted: Mon Mar 25, 2013 9:10 pm 
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After my mmc and when I got pg again I was advised no sex Sad and again when I got pg this time (as I had a couple more mc's) I was advised no sex again.

It is likely to be ok tho. Goodluck. xxx
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Posted: Tue Mar 26, 2013 11:40 am 
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Thanks for the replies, my mw had advised no sex untill after 12 weeks and we were taking things more gentle anyway. I had a scan a few weeks ago and everything was fine so im keeping everything crossed.

Avasmummy did you just carry on having sex anyway?
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Posted: Tue Mar 26, 2013 11:47 am 
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Yeh we just carried on.. tbf we didnt do it as rough as normal. Just took things slow. If I had spotting we would just stop for a day or so and then carried on as normal. I was never advised no sex though xx
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Posted: Tue Mar 26, 2013 1:27 pm 
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We were advised not to have sex for first 12 weeks too, just in case but most cases of spotting afterwards is due to the cervix being over sensitive. Did you have any cramping after? If you did then I would avoid sex in that case as the spotting could have been caused by that, but if not then it sounds like it's just the cervix & spotting from there wouldn't affect the baby in any way. I didn't want to chance it though xx
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Posted: Tue Mar 26, 2013 1:34 pm 
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No I had no cramping or pain with it. I definately dont want to chance it either, its strange though because with kayne I had no bleeding at all and we did still have fairly rough sex but this time weve not been having sex so much and we were being really gently as im just so paranoid after having two mc.
Can sex cause a mc like if your too rough and hit the cervix hard?
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Posted: Tue Mar 26, 2013 3:46 pm 
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Hi hun, hopefully like the other ladies have said it's nothing to worry about but we were also advised no sex until after 12weeks and after 3 mc's I've been so scared that we only did it for the first time the other night. Maybe just hold off until you have your scan just to be on the safe side. Good Luck xx
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Posted: Wed Mar 27, 2013 3:01 pm 
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Hi everyone, scan went great today baby is measuring 3.4cm and they put me forward a day to 10weeks 1 day. Baby was wiggling around in there and we saw its little feet, sooo happy Very Happy Very Happy Very Happy
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Posted: Wed Mar 27, 2013 4:15 pm 
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Great news April Very Happy
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Posted: Wed Mar 27, 2013 4:16 pm 
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That's really good news hun, hopefully you can relax a little bit now x
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