Posted: Sat May 18, 2013 7:45 pm
I live in US and I have several articles on IVF the last few weeks. I get so mad reading the comments posted by some. Some called us IVF users selfish and evil bc instead of adopting we try to have children of our own. I even read a post that said people who did IVF should just realize that God didn't us children for a reason, she went on to we would be unfit. I was so mad!
Posted: Sat May 18, 2013 9:24 pm
Mmhm. There were a lot of people griping about us being given IVF on the NHS (National Health Service). One even said we should all get cognitive behavioural therapy to stop us wanting children.
I can think of many examples from the news of people who have no problems popping out a child/children and then abusing them/killing them in a house fire they started because they wanted a bigger house.
How anyone can think there's any connection between what nature allows and the type of parents you'd be is beyond me.
I wish I hadn't read it as I found it really upsetting but once I started I couldn't stop myself.
Posted: Sat May 18, 2013 11:41 pm
I know what you mean. People just don't understand unless they have suffered through infertility. I don't understand how a lot of people (especially the ones who are parents) could not show compassion and understanding our desire to be parents.
It seems like a lot of people who shouldn't be parents get pregnant very easily.
Posted: Sun May 19, 2013 3:19 pm
My friend is using the clinic that has pioneered alot of the new stuff and the new thing that was on gmtv last week.
Seem so much better than her last clinic and more forward thinking.
In regards to the comments on pages, it is hard for people to understand infertility and I dont think I truly understood uowbit can devastate people's lives till my best friend went through it xx