AskBaby Talk > IVF & Sterilisation Reversal > Sterilisation Reversal, Mr De Silva, West Midlands Hospital
Posted: Thu Jun 12, 2014 7:19 am
Hi everyone! After a very long 4 years I've finally had my reversal!!! I had it done on Tuesday. I'm very sore but excited for things to come. Mr De Silva is lovely and all the hospital staff were brilliant. I had open surgery and both tubes were saved and are a good length. Only one clip was found the other one is missing! I cannot believe how painful it is although it's better than yesterday. Hopefully I don't have to wait too long. Good luck to everybody still trying xx
Posted: Sun Jun 15, 2014 7:04 pm
Hi Hun that's brilliant news to hear that all went well and Mr De Silva saved both your tubes! It's not very nice to go through is it tbh it's worse than you expect isn't it but your on the road to recovery now just make sure you take it easy!!
As for me after my last post, I sadly lost mine at 5weeks exactly we were devastated :'( got used to being pregnant and being so so happy for it all to come crashing down on us like a ton of bricks Life is so cruel sometimes!! I stayed away from these sites as couldn't handle it for a while had to come to terms with it so me and hubby went abroad for a short holiday to get away from it all just me and him no kids, it was like a breath of fresh air! I did nothing but blame myself at first thinking what did I do wrong? But finally accepted it was one of those cruel things and guess it just wasn't our time. Suppose my body just wasn't ready seen though it's been 15 yrs since I was last pregnant.
So as soon as I had my first period after the loss we started again couldn't give up and I got my BFP yesterday!!! Will be 4 weeks tomorrow!! My emotions are all over the place I'm so so happy but also so so scared!! I don't want to lose this one :/ I don't think I could cope if I did. What a brilliant Father's Day surprise for my hubby tho he's over the moon bless him so now we are on tenderhooks must try and keep positive though! One thing that is reassuring me is that my BFPS are a stronger line this time. The last ones weren't really getting any darker now I know that was due to something being wrong. But today's BFP is stronger than yesterday's so praying that's a good sign!
I'm hoping I don't jinx myself by posting on here again :/ Xx
Posted: Tue Jun 17, 2014 4:18 pm
Hi jellytot so sorry you had a m/c I have my fingers crossed for you that this pregnancy sticks xx
Well it's been a week since my op and this is the first day I've not been in agony! I've been sleeping on the sofa so that I can stay upright lol will be able to go to bed tonight though I think. I still have to keep reminding myself that I am now fertile! I'm so excited . I really hope I don't have to wait long. I'm just about to turn 35 so not completely over the hill!
Will keep you updated with my progress. Have a happy and healthy 9 months xx