Going from 2 to 3

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abbie29
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Posted: Sat Dec 28, 2013 9:25 pm 
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Even though Eden is still only tiny, OH and I have been discussing having another (not for a while yet, probably aiming for a gap similar to Izzy and Eden). For those who have 3, or more, what are the biggest issues? We're looking at moving anyway and getting a new car - so those aren't really a problem as we will do them anyway! xx
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Posted: Tue Dec 31, 2013 2:18 pm 
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Good on you!! Obviously I have no advice but wanted to say I am very chuffed for you.

Will you be the first of the Jan 2010 mummies to have 3?!

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Posted: Tue Dec 31, 2013 8:06 pm 
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Rachel and Dee already have 3! And it won't be for a while - we want to move first! I just like to be prepared!!! Hope you and the girls had a lovely Christmas - will have to arrange an annual meet up!! X
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Posted: Wed Jan 01, 2014 9:04 pm 
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Oh yeah they have! Durr! You are all brave! Haha!

Meet up would be great. Will be in contact Smile

xx

PS Sorry to gatecrash your post - hopefully someone will actually answer your qu!!

Much love to the girls, can't wait to meet Eden xx
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Posted: Thu Jan 02, 2014 3:39 pm 
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i would love to get some answers for this too as i am going to 3 in the next few weeks Confused Confused
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Posted: Sun Jan 05, 2014 8:34 am 
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Hiya,

We have two but are talking about a third too. I've asked some of my friends who have three as my hubby needs some convincing and they said that finding holidays that cater for 5 is a bit trickier. Getting a babysitter for three is trickier and just general chaos/loudness is an overwhelming feature! There's always ways round things and I've noticed that a lot of family places now sell tickets for a family of 5 as well as 4 now.

However, they all said they loved it, they've never regretted it and to do it!

I think if you want another one but don't do it, you will always regret it and that's such a massive regret to have! Hopefully the OH will agree with me! Very Happy

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Posted: Mon Jan 13, 2014 9:16 pm 
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I would really love a baby number 3!! Smile
But OH is totally adamant he only wants to stick with the 2, definitely no more Sad I'm hoping he will change his mind, I don't want another until after we have got married next year..
I really hope he agrees after then Very Happy

Sorry not really an answer is it lol
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Posted: Mon Jan 13, 2014 9:38 pm 
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I am the eldest of three and my mum has a few times said to me (when my youngest sister wasn't about) 'Don't have 3'. She definitely doesn't regret it and loves us all equally, but she's said it anyway.
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Posted: Tue Jan 14, 2014 9:59 pm 
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Do you know why Heath? X
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Posted: Wed Jan 15, 2014 8:14 pm 
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I don't really know. Just assume everything more complex and expensive.
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Posted: Fri Jan 17, 2014 9:25 am 
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This is us! OH wants a third, I'm less certain because of all the scare stories from parents with 3. However, I think the decision may have been made as I got a VERY faint positive yesterday...
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Posted: Sun Jan 19, 2014 8:57 pm 
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I've had 3 in the past Razz lol.
Noise, toys and whirlwinds but so much love nothing can be bad.
I have four and as Mr Teeny was a 'protected conception' he happened a lot sooner then expected and I didn't have just the three for long so I'm more basing this on four.

Apart from the whole family ticket thing I can't really pick anything specific that I would consider a con. The hardest part you've already done. Going from an only child to having 2 is harder then having more after that point. I'd say if you want another have another. I can guarantee no matter what happens you'll never regret it xx
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