Posted: Mon Mar 14, 2016 11:52 am
Post subject: My experience of getting child
Hi girls. Ive been hanging at the same pose as u are now for the whole 4 years and 2 months. Ive been diagnosed for ovulation disorders caused by PCOS. In addition abnormalities of uterus cavity were found. Ive tried IUI while being on fertility treatment hormones. But the insemination failed. We were moved to 3 cycles of unsuccessful IVF before I decided to switch to another clinic. During the fourth IVF my physician informed us about the issues with egg retrieval and it's poor quality. The fifth time failure was fixed at the stage of embryo transfer due to my uterus.
There is was done to me. I couldn't physical do better than that cuz emotionally I was broke. And then we were adviced to seek the third individual's help. My husband's friend is a great surgery specialist. He's traveled the world doing his surgeries here and there. He told during one of his job trips he got acquainted with a woman, who's sister had a surrogacy experience in one of the Ukrainian clinics. He didn't remember it's name but it was a pushy hint for me. The net helped me to get the whole info and finally I'd choose the place I had to try.
We went to the clinic called Biotexcom, where we were offered 3 packages for surrogacy and smth else. It was the offer to try donation with two attempts. In case of failure the process transfers to surrogacy. We loved the donation idea as well as the price of package. It was just like 29900 euro for everything. Actually I had a failure during the donation, but the good news was that the surrogacy was next. By that time we already payed like 9900 and additional 2000 for the surrogacy transfer. When the surrogate Ukrainian mother got pregnant and passed her first trimester we payed the next 6000 and were waiting for the end. The prices were really that cheap, but I loved the care more. Everything was just included taking even simple things. We had perfect meals and place to stay. Our manager was too kind trying to provide us with all the necessary info on every stage.
Closer to the delivery date I was too stressed. Now it wasn't just about the birth, as I felt our baby was in total safety. Ive spent my nights reading about the legalization difficulties getting the child from over seas and I was freaking out.
When our boy was born, my happiness was increased triples. U know why? The clinic and the whole team made the whole process that smooth and safe that I couldn't be happier ever. They prepared all the documents for our new born's trip. It was a great pleasure to get those nice experiences of success in Ukraine, which I would never think alone.
Biotexcom is the place which gave a birth to my child after I was about to lose any hope. More interesting is that we've payed less money even than for those failures which I've got here in US.
Posted: Mon Mar 14, 2016 12:07 pm
Hi, Monique! My congratulations! You are not alone, everywhere I meet people who had positive experience in Ukraine) It is very popular and reliable clinic. I think we should create a group of guys who were succeeded in biotexcom) I am very happy that people share their stories, once it helped me to overcome depression and to make choice. If not Ukraine, maybe another country, it doesn’t matter. People just should read positive stories to know that it is worth to fight, that it can happen many negative things, failures, losses, but finally we can be happy as others, normal.
Posted: Mon Mar 14, 2016 2:02 pm
Hi Monique. Your story is fantastic! So happy for you to be able to hold your own child in your arms! Just a few months will pass and you’ll be called a MOM… for the first time in your life! Stories like yours teach us that infertility is not a verdict. Thanks to such reproductive medicine clinics, infertile women get a chance for normal maternity!
Very happy for you and take care of your baby!
Posted: Tue Mar 15, 2016 6:59 pm
Hi Monique. My name is Felicity. And I am extremely happy to read your story. Four years ago me and my husband found out that I cannot have a child. The thing was that doctors couldn't explain the reason why. There is even a name for this diagnosis. It is called unexplained infertility. I guess that is the worst diagnosis ever. It makes it very difficult to find correct treatment because the cause is unknown. I cannot even explain what i felt at that time. All my dreams about big and happy family were ruined. For some time we were thinking about adoption. My husband wasn't against it, but he wanted his own child. And that wasn't the best solution for us. And we started looking for something else. At first we were afraid to think about surrogacy, and we decided to read peoples experience. This way we found out that it is quite popular throughout the world. But we are from Spain and it is illegal in our country. So we decided to search for clinic in other country. First two clinics that we tried didn't manage to help us to become parents. It is very difficult for me to recall that time without tears. We had almost lost hope when my husband read about Biotexcom. And that was a miracle for us. At that time it was almost impossible to read about it in the forum. But today situation is different. I am very glad that everyone can easily find out about this Ukrainian clinic. Doctors of the clinic are pure magicians. They gave us a child and made us the happiest mom and dad in the world. I want to make everyone know about this place. Thank you for sharing your story.
Posted: Fri Apr 08, 2016 9:05 am
Hi ladies, I understand you so much! we've been struggling with infertility for more than eight years. it was a heartbreak. eventually, our striving for parenting ended up in adopting of a 5 y o Bulgarian girl. So many benefits and so many challenges in the meantime. In any case, we reached our aim - we became parents! The same about you. It's a pleasure to read such successful stories of infertility ending up in parenting. No matter surrogacy or adoption. Every family decides on its own. The main thing is that we finally hold our children in our arms. When you're waiting for it for so many years, you value it hundred times more than any ordinary parents.