Posted: Mon Mar 14, 2016 11:52 am
Post subject: My experience of getting child
Hi girls. Ive been hanging at the same pose as u are now for the whole 4 years and 2 months. Ive been diagnosed for ovulation disorders caused by PCOS. In addition abnormalities of uterus cavity were found. Ive tried IUI while being on fertility treatment hormones. But the insemination failed. We were moved to 3 cycles of unsuccessful IVF before I decided to switch to another clinic. During the fourth IVF my physician informed us about the issues with egg retrieval and it's poor quality. The fifth time failure was fixed at the stage of embryo transfer due to my uterus.
There is was done to me. I couldn't physical do better than that cuz emotionally I was broke. And then we were adviced to seek the third individual's help. My husband's friend is a great surgery specialist. He's traveled the world doing his surgeries here and there. He told during one of his job trips he got acquainted with a woman, who's sister had a surrogacy experience in one of the Ukrainian clinics. He didn't remember it's name but it was a pushy hint for me. The net helped me to get the whole info and finally I'd choose the place I had to try.
We went to the clinic called Biotexcom, where we were offered 3 packages for surrogacy and smth else. It was the offer to try donation with two attempts. In case of failure the process transfers to surrogacy. We loved the donation idea as well as the price of package. It was just like 29900 euro for everything. Actually I had a failure during the donation, but the good news was that the surrogacy was next. By that time we already payed like 9900 and additional 2000 for the surrogacy transfer. When the surrogate Ukrainian mother got pregnant and passed her first trimester we payed the next 6000 and were waiting for the end. The prices were really that cheap, but I loved the care more. Everything was just included taking even simple things. We had perfect meals and place to stay. Our manager was too kind trying to provide us with all the necessary info on every stage.
Closer to the delivery date I was too stressed. Now it wasn't just about the birth, as I felt our baby was in total safety. Ive spent my nights reading about the legalization difficulties getting the child from over seas and I was freaking out.
When our boy was born, my happiness was increased triples. U know why? The clinic and the whole team made the whole process that smooth and safe that I couldn't be happier ever. They prepared all the documents for our new born's trip. It was a great pleasure to get those nice experiences of success in Ukraine, which I would never think alone.
Biotexcom is the place which gave a birth to my child after I was about to lose any hope. More interesting is that we've payed less money even than for those failures which I've got here in US.
Posted: Mon Mar 14, 2016 12:07 pm
Hi, Monique! My congratulations! You are not alone, everywhere I meet people who had positive experience in Ukraine) It is very popular and reliable clinic. I think we should create a group of guys who were succeeded in biotexcom) I am very happy that people share their stories, once it helped me to overcome depression and to make choice. If not Ukraine, maybe another country, it doesnít matter. People just should read positive stories to know that it is worth to fight, that it can happen many negative things, failures, losses, but finally we can be happy as others, normal.
Posted: Mon Mar 14, 2016 2:02 pm
Hi Monique. Your story is fantastic! So happy for you to be able to hold your own child in your arms! Just a few months will pass and youíll be called a MOMÖ for the first time in your life! Stories like yours teach us that infertility is not a verdict. Thanks to such reproductive medicine clinics, infertile women get a chance for normal maternity!
Very happy for you and take care of your baby!
Posted: Tue Mar 15, 2016 6:59 pm
Hi Monique. My name is Felicity. And I am extremely happy to read your story. Four years ago me and my husband found out that I cannot have a child. The thing was that doctors couldn't explain the reason why. There is even a name for this diagnosis. It is called unexplained infertility. I guess that is the worst diagnosis ever. It makes it very difficult to find correct treatment because the cause is unknown. I cannot even explain what i felt at that time. All my dreams about big and happy family were ruined. For some time we were thinking about adoption. My husband wasn't against it, but he wanted his own child. And that wasn't the best solution for us. And we started looking for something else. At first we were afraid to think about surrogacy, and we decided to read peoples experience. This way we found out that it is quite popular throughout the world. But we are from Spain and it is illegal in our country. So we decided to search for clinic in other country. First two clinics that we tried didn't manage to help us to become parents. It is very difficult for me to recall that time without tears. We had almost lost hope when my husband read about Biotexcom. And that was a miracle for us. At that time it was almost impossible to read about it in the forum. But today situation is different. I am very glad that everyone can easily find out about this Ukrainian clinic. Doctors of the clinic are pure magicians. They gave us a child and made us the happiest mom and dad in the world. I want to make everyone know about this place. Thank you for sharing your story.
Posted: Fri Apr 08, 2016 9:05 am
Hi ladies, I understand you so much! we've been struggling with infertility for more than eight years. it was a heartbreak. eventually, our striving for parenting ended up in adopting of a 5 y o Bulgarian girl. So many benefits and so many challenges in the meantime. In any case, we reached our aim - we became parents! The same about you. It's a pleasure to read such successful stories of infertility ending up in parenting. No matter surrogacy or adoption. Every family decides on its own. The main thing is that we finally hold our children in our arms. When you're waiting for it for so many years, you value it hundred times more than any ordinary parents.
Posted: Tue Jun 07, 2016 11:35 am
Girls, it's so nice to read your stories! I had surrogacy in Ukrainian BioTexCom too. I was diagnosed with chronic glomerulonephritis 20 years ago, now Iím 37. Iíve got pregnant in 2007. My pregnancy resulted in severe preeclampsia, emergency caesarean and death of my child on the second week of resuscitation. My husband left me and it seemed like my whole world was destroyed. Fortunately I met my soul mate. My second husband have been always supporting me, no matter what. We fell in love and got married in 2010. I moved to US to live together. We decided we wonít conceive naturally, but use surrogacy program. Prices here are too high for our abilities. So we started to look for clinics abroad. We chose Ukrainian clinic BioTexCom. Their prices are much lower, medicine and services are on high level and the most important is they check each surrogate mother very carefully. We had surrogacy there in 2011 and 2015. Now we have 3 healthy and gorgeous kids, girl and two boys(twins). We chose Ukrainian BioTexCom clinic. Itís becoming popular now. Especially after India was closed for foreign couples. I must say maybe itís not that bad. There is so much info about unhealthy surrogates. Itís better to find clinic which check women for such programs carefully. We had no discomfort at all. We were met by taxi driver. Then taxi was carrying us across the city. We didn't have to find the clinic by ourselves! I'm sure we would be lost. Especially considering the fact that neither I nor my husband know the language. The taxi brought us to the clinic. It's a very modern building I must say. By the way, there were so many peoples! Couples all over the world, who came for surrogacy and egg donation programs. Also there were girls, who came for medical checks to become donors and surrogate moms, also doctors and nurses. We didn't expect to see such crowd! This was one more reason we signed contract with BioTexCom. I think those lines just show that clinic is not only popular in it's activity, but also infertile couples trust them and have some confidence in positive result. We also had a translator so there were no misunderstandings at all. That girl translated everything for us and also answered all our questions. We stayed at nice apartment with all needed facilities and even more) We had no problems with food supply or communication. Thanks to this clinic we became parents and we are very grateful!