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04chaunt
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Posted: Thu May 14, 2009 10:23 am 
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Me and my civil partner are having our first child through surrogacy and are very excited. Very Happy Will the surrogate get too attached????
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Posted: Thu May 14, 2009 1:46 pm 
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04chaunt wrote:
Me and my civil partner are having our first child through surrogacy and are very excited. Very Happy Will the surrogate get too attached????


surrogates shouldnt get too attched as they know what there doing if u get what i mean especially if its something they have done b4 so i wouldnt worry hope everything goes ok 4 u and good luck x x x x
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Posted: Wed Jun 17, 2009 10:30 am 
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04chaunt wrote:
Me and my civil partner are having our first child through surrogacy and are very excited. Very Happy Will the surrogate get too attached????


Civil are you both men or women? Just curious!

Don't think they should get attached, as they know what they are doing.
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Posted: Tue Jun 23, 2009 9:38 am 
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we are both women =D
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Posted: Wed Jun 24, 2009 9:19 am 
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Please excuse me for being so narrow minded, but what happens when the baby see's you kissing when she/he is older?

I knew it wasn't right when I saw my mother kissing her best friends husband and that was when I was 4/5 years old.

I also have a friend who's daughter is a lesbian she had a civil ceromony about 3 yrs ago and they want a surrogacy baby too.
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Posted: Wed Jun 24, 2009 12:54 pm 
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see two people in love kissing?? i dont really understand what you meant by that?

2 decent people that are love, married and decide to bring a baby up with care, devotion and kindness should not be made to feel this is wrong because they are the same sex.

who says a hetro couple is the RIGHT thing to do?

in this day and age are we not more open minded about this? surely a baby being born into a rough, un caring, alcoholic family is wrong and something we should question.
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Posted: Wed Jun 24, 2009 1:01 pm 
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[quote="lm2008"] i dont really understand what you meant by that?
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Wasn't asking you! But seems as you have butted in would you be happy if your OH was gay and your child went to live with a gay couple?
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Posted: Wed Jun 24, 2009 1:07 pm 
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and what exactly is wrong with a gay couple??

they are not diseased or dirty like you are implying

dont jump on somebodys thread that is innocently asking for advice and tell them they are wrong for doing what they are doing.

keep your opinions to yourself
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Posted: Wed Jun 24, 2009 1:10 pm 
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Well said!!

04chaunt, good luck to you and your partner. Hope everything turns out well for you
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Posted: Wed Jun 24, 2009 1:28 pm 
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04chaunt, good luck to you and your partner. Hope everything turns out well for you[/quote]

I couldn't agree more good luck, was just asking a question, god you women with hormones are terrible Laughing should stop and think
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Posted: Wed Jun 24, 2009 1:31 pm 
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Maybe EVERYONE should stop and think, then there is no risk that ANYONE will be offended, insulted or berated!!!
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Posted: Wed Jun 24, 2009 1:56 pm 
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hi there,
congrtulations on having a baby.. Very Happy
a surrogate should not get 2 attached 2 baby,but ive never delt with anything like that so wouldnt know for sure...
im sure u will both make lovely loving parents..x
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Posted: Wed Jun 24, 2009 2:06 pm 
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I am so sorry 04chaunt but I need to lock this thread now to stop further upset and nonsense to your topic.

Toxic is right and EVERYONE should think before posting unhelpful and potentially offensive comments Rolling Eyes
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