Posted: Tue Mar 18, 2008 8:15 am
Post subject: Don't want sex now im pregnant just in case!
Hi im 5 weeks pregnant n since I found out last week I dont want to have sex what so ever! I had a miscarriage last year im im scared having sex might trigger another one! also with me feelin tired etc. im just not in the mood. I feel sorry 4 my poor boyfriend since we have gone from having sex every day to not at all.....is any1 else the same and has gone off sex or am i just bein over precautious?
Posted: Tue Mar 18, 2008 10:43 am
Hi I understand totally how you feel I have lost 2 in the last 8 months and I too was very cautious....I spoke to my midwife and even though I have lost 2 she said sex was perfectly safe. My other half has been absolutely great just give it a couple of weeks and you will begin to feel better I am nearly 12 weeks now and have succumbed quite a lot over the last 3 -4 weeks although no swinging from the chandeliers if you know what I mean.
Take care Flossie xx
Posted: Tue Mar 18, 2008 12:56 pm
I read up on this as was to concerned early on.. and I "lost my appetite for sex" to... But there is no evidence to suggest that there can be any harm done by continuing to have sexual intercourse however I can understand why you might be concerned.
I seem to now enjoy sex alot more than I did before being pregnant.
Posted: Tue Mar 18, 2008 1:20 pm
i was scared of harming the baby as i had a few early pregnancy bleeds this time and also lost one last year.
the thing is im really just off sex completely now... everynow and then i get an urge to and my boyfriend makes the most of the opportunity while it lasts.lol.
you just need to be comfortable with what you are doing.