Posted: Tue Apr 15, 2008 2:29 pm
Post subject: fed up
hi im 36 weeks on fri and feeling down in the dumps me and hubby had a big row last night as i feel so unloved at the minute i no its probs me being silly but silly thing r going throgh my mind like him leaving im shouting at him all the time for nothing i even slept on the sofa last night and he just left me ther im so mad with him and dont no why xx
Posted: Tue Apr 15, 2008 3:23 pm
Oh poor you.. it's probably hormones and the fact that pregnancy makes us much more vulnerable and needy than we normally are...
you should still have a go at him for leaving you on the sofa though! but if we try for a minute to put ourselves in our partners' shoes, it must be pretty baffling for them coping with our hormones...
Remember that low stress levels are the most important thing for your baby...
When telling him off tonight, remember to say 'i felt like this' not 'you did this' etc. They respond better that way..
Posted: Tue Apr 15, 2008 3:43 pm
Lisaken run (or waddle quickly!) up to hubby when he comes in from work and give him a huge cuddle then say that you know you're being a big poohead to him but it's cos you feel like a big poohead.......have a bit of a cry and say you need him more than ever just now and then suggest what we were talking about in the other topic earlier today! That'll sort everything out!
When i'm shouting and being a pregnancy [*CENSORED*] to my hubby this approach usually (sometimes a slap works just as well!!! ) works for me and reminds him that it's the hormones talking xxxxx <hugs for little baby> xxxxx
I'm not on here all the time so if you need anything PM me Arch x