Posted: Mon Apr 28, 2008 8:45 am
Post subject: no period but no other signs
I am very confused. I think I am on Day 47 of my cycle so at least 12 days late. I tested on day 35 twice and then again on day 37 and both were negative.
I have no other signs or being pregnant so I am probably not but why would my period disappear like this?
I am trying for my 2nd child (my daughteri 3 now) and it took a while to conceive her but then I wasn't ovulating or regular. I thought it would be a bit easier this time.
Is anyone else experiencing anything like this - I would love to hear from toy. (or anyone else with any advice). I know you will probably say test again to be sure and I think I will this week but with no other symptoms of pregnancy I am guessing I'm not. With my daughter I had sore boobs straight away.
Sorry to ramble on but you know what it's like when you are trying to get pregnant all you see are things to remind you of it - babies, pregnant women, adverts for certain things - I am constantly reminded when I go to the loo that my period is late.
Posted: Mon Apr 28, 2008 8:47 am
y dont u ask the doc to do a blood test to see if u r preg sounds pos
i am due my period today and got no pains so dont think it will show but took a test and it was neg so just have to wait
Posted: Mon Apr 28, 2008 8:51 am
Please don't worry hun - I'm going through exactly the same thing as you. I'm currently on day 54 of my cycle! I was told that my cycle would take a while to settle down after my miscarriage in January but my first period following my miscarriage was 6 weeks after so this is taking ages! Like you, no signs of af or pg really. I've had the odd stomach cramp and my boobs feel bit different but not sore really. I took a test last Saturday which was negative but what I've been told is that if you're having a longer cycle I could have only just ovulated so I could still be pregnant and it's too early to tell - Make sure that you keep trying hun as you don't seem sure as to when you're ovulating. Some people don't get symptoms til they're about 7 or 8 weeks - I'm hoping to test again later this week if I haven't come on. Just think, if you are, you'll only be very early so you might not have enough hormone yet.
I know what you mean about being reminded about it - I think about it every time I see a baby advert on tv! Lol! Just think positively - no period at the mo, looks like a good sign. I'm here if ya need to chat.
Anybody else got any news?
Posted: Mon Apr 28, 2008 8:58 am
Post subject: thanks
I is so reassuring to hear from people who understand what its like.
I think you're right Sarah- I don't know when I'm ovulating exactly, never had any signs. I would love to be pregnant but it is so hard to go through the negative tests each time I am almost scared to do a test again. Silly I know.
One thing I was going to ask was about boobs - mine aren't tender to touch but I am experiencing strange pains / sensations in them. Could this be a sign or anything or am I going slightly mad.
Posted: Mon Apr 28, 2008 9:01 am
Oh hun, it sounds good to me. You sound really similar to me. I'm having strange feelings in them. They definitely feel fuller and now and again a bit tender but just have twinges in them really - might mean very early stages. I'm scared about doing test again aswell because I get really upset everytime it's negative but try to stay positive. Are you using an early detection pregnancy test?
Let's hope we're both at early stages! xxx
Posted: Mon Apr 28, 2008 9:01 am
everyone gets symtoms slightly diffrent so it might just be the way your body deals with it
i know wat u mean about gettin neg test i have had 3 so i am scared to do another but i have decided not to buy a test till i am gonna use it other wise its like i can hear it callin me LOL now i am going mad
Posted: Mon Apr 28, 2008 9:10 am
Post subject: don't know what to think
It sounds like everyone has different symtoms at different times then?
I think I am trying to stop myself from thinking I am pregnant just in case I'm not. But when I think about it no period, weird feelings in boobs, and another weird thing is that I keep smelling things that aren't there. Now you mgiht think I am totally crazy but even my husband didn't know what I was talking about. It keeps happening to me though.
I really hope we all get what we want soon - wouldn't it be great.
For those of you trying for your first - it is worth the wait! I waited 14 months for Maisie because I wasn't having any periods after being on the pill. But she was worth the wait.
Got to pop out but be back on later. Please let me kow what you think.
bye for now
Posted: Mon Apr 28, 2008 9:15 am
i think there is strong chance u could be good luck hope u r
Posted: Mon Apr 28, 2008 9:33 am
Hi missusmop, from what i'v read and heard your symptoms sound positive, have just read over all the posts these girls on this site are all so helpful with experieinces and advice i've learnt so much it really helps eh i think you should go docs and get a blood test, cause you could be and docs can tell for sure, know it's so upsetting seeing that bfN, but hey got to stick with it and keep going.
i don't have any children, this is my first time trying being 31yrs old and am so hoping i don't have probs, am so worried about Never experiencing being a mum chellexxx
Posted: Mon Apr 28, 2008 9:38 am
Morning missusmop. Def go to the doctors my dear and have blood test to put your mind at ease either way. Good luck and let us know what happens. Pupx
Chelle try and stay positive, you still have years ahead but lets hope it happens soon. Being a mum is fab and Im sure you will geet your chance! Pupxx
Posted: Mon Apr 28, 2008 9:47 am
thanks Pup, feeling v emotional today so thinking i prob will get my af afterall, time will tell if not i'll do test Weds, just so worried about leaving my first child too late, my partner just wasn't ready cause we bought a house that needed massive renovation project we'ev actually had to move out and need both our incomes so finish it off, so his been putting baby trying off due to money, but i've finally got him to see we need to start now! and house nearly done, yep gotta keep positive know if have probs can see a clinc for help and stuff so not gotta panic too much yet eh, but it's hard not to. damm I've only been trying for 1 month!feels like a year! lol. chelle.x thanx 4 all your advice and wordsxxx
Posted: Mon Apr 28, 2008 10:31 am
Chelle - you are never too old to have a baby and don't let anyone make you think differently. I think it is sensible that you've got everything else sorted before trying for a baby. I'm sure it will happen soon.
My advice to you is try not to worry about things that haven't happened yet. I know it's not easy because I do the same thing all the time but it will put your body under unnecessary stress and you don't need that right now. You will get your baby when the time is right - at least the stories on here should give you some hope. There are some ladies that have been trying for years but still get their baby eventualy - I'm afraid it's a waiting game which is the infuriating thing about it! There's options for all of us no matter what though.
Keep your chin up and good luck this week! Hope you get your first bfp! Babydust to you! xxx
Posted: Mon Apr 28, 2008 11:44 am
hey ladies i was on the other forum last nite think it was 'general pregnancy' and there a lady on there who started trying in december and went for a smear test only to be told she's 12 weeks!
she had no idea kept getting bfn, so there is hope for all whose af hasnt arrived but stil getting bfn's.
good luck. x