Posted: Wed Jan 07, 2009 11:10 pm
what ever she tells you just nod and agree that helps the hormone moaning a lot less, offer to rub moisteriser into her back as this can help reduce stretch marks and obviously they cant do that bit for themselves. As for the baby side of it i talk to the bump a lot and give our baby girl kisses as this involves me and its not all down to her then. I do the house work still as she is tired most of the time and in return i am alowed to call her fatty fatty boom boom and nelly as se knows after baby is here she will be back to size 8 and she knows shes not fat or put on much weight and i am going to go back to being the fat one
I got her to chose all the babys furniture as our taste is exactly the same and i knew that what she chose would be perfect but i did buy our little girls coming home outfit. Hope ths helps you i have learnt a lot these last 9 months
Posted: Thu Jan 08, 2009 12:51 pm
Welcome to Askbaby. My hubby is a member. I will tell him to get his bum on here now there are more guys. lol
After 3 and half years of ttc, tests being clear and unable to adopt, we have decided to become a patchwork family. Me, my hubby and stepchildren.
Its so sad to know I will never hear the word 'Mommy'.x
Posted: Thu Jan 08, 2009 1:02 pm
Marc's tips are ace!! Suzi you have him well trained!! xxx
I know well until i lost my job he used to do all the cooking, cleaning, ironing and garden with out any moaning as i worked 5 days a week and he would do 4 days one week and 3 the next so when i frst finished i did everything until it became too much effort now he has gone back to doing it all x
Posted: Sat Jan 17, 2009 2:08 pm
welsome to the site hun u will find it helpful and congrats on your pregnancy. all i can say is your wife may be sensitive to the smallest things now her hormones will be all over the place so emotions will be running high try help out more aoruns the house as she will feel more tired and drained and dont let her get to stresses as it not good for any of u or baby. stay and knowledgable as her on the pregnancy as there is nothing worse then talking bout oregnancy with a husband who isnt interested lol good luck hun xx
Posted: Fri Jan 23, 2009 7:29 am
Hi and welcome!!! Its so good to see some more dads joining up My best bit of advice is dont forget to tell her how much you love her and how beautiful she looks. My hubby made the mistake of saying he didnt find preg woman attractive and I overheard him!!!!!! Kinda gotta say that wasnt a good thing
Also, dont ever feel you will hurt the baby by , a lot of men think that but a womans libedo can get rather high during pregnancy
Enjoy the pregnancy with her and spend some time talking to the bump, you will be suprised how they recognise your voice when born!!