Posted: Fri May 02, 2008 8:02 am
Post subject: IT's FRIDAY!!!!!!!!!!COME ON LETS GET TESTING!!
Morning girls, (Thanx for the post 'Good Luck' you girls are so lovely)
Well, i got my AF this morning ...am gutted so I'm out the Fri Test gang.
But hey those who are testing today I wish you all the luck and best wishes, come get testing! one of you has got to get a BFP!!!!
Posted: Fri May 02, 2008 8:07 am
aw im sorry to hear that chelle, u must be so mad damn that af!
i posted in 'testing friday club' i got BFN but it was with a cheap Asda one, nd i tested early so im gonna test again on tuesday with clearblue.
Dont be to disheartend hun, look forward to the overdose of BD this month it will happen soon for u hun. x
Posted: Fri May 02, 2008 8:55 am
Sorry to hear about your bfn's. But as you say, it could be too early and Dory's story is a positive one for you jo! Hope that its the same case for you!
Well my bfn yesterday has become a little clearer this morning because like you Chelle my af arrived this morning! But instead of being gutted, I'm actually really relieved because it finally ends my 58 day cycle!!!! YAY!!! I'm not completely abnormal! I was beginning to worry - and it's so typical that I just booked a doc appointment yesterday to talk to her about my very long cycle this month! Hope you're okay Chelle, at least you don't have to waste a test and you can get started again! We will be at the same point in our cycle hun expect if my next cycle is anything to go by my last one, I'll be waiting a lot longer than you! Me and my oh have decided to keep trying at regular intervals every week cos we have no idea when ov occurs with me!
Good luck girlies who still have to test and I'm keeping my fingers crossed for you girlies who still have no af and who got the negative! Lots of babydust to you.
Posted: Fri May 02, 2008 9:03 am
Posted: Fri May 02, 2008 9:08 am
I had a missed miscarriage in January and then had to have the d + c operation (bled for 14 days after op). They said to me that I would probably get my first period about 6 weeks after it which I did. Then since then it's been 58 days. They said that it might take a while for my cycle to settle down - I've also spoken to some people who have mentioned that some girls have had probs with ov and cycles after a m/c. I guess my af finally arriving is a good sign though. It would be worrying if I didn't have one. I'm pleased about my af arriving because at least I know where I am in my cycle now and my partner and I can prepare to try frequently throughout and not guess the length of my cycle. When I was on my long cycle I had no idea if I was pregnant, ovulating or due on so hopefully this cycle will be shorter - or that I get pregnant this month! I'm going to enjoy trying!
Have you had any symptoms jo? When are you due your af? xxx
Posted: Fri May 02, 2008 9:14 am
im sorry about ur miscarrage sarah, but im happy that uve got sum peace of mind now and can get back on track, i wish u so much luck 4 this month u deserve it hun.
i came off the pill in early march and had last af on april 8th so im due this tuesday, its hard to tell bout symptoms cause there so similar to af. usually my boobs are really tender but at the minute its more just my nipples are sore (tmi) i haven't had any cramping in a while now although i did about a week ago. other than that i dont really know? x
Posted: Fri May 02, 2008 9:18 am
Sorry to hear about your m/c and also af arriving but its a good sign for you and hopefully now you can get on with things and get a bfp next months.
Loads of baby dust your way as you deserve it after all youve been throught
Posted: Fri May 02, 2008 9:45 am
Thanks girls -
I left a post in the pregnancy forum to just gather some general advice from ladies who've got pregnant after m/c and they said that you're most fertile after a m/c for a few months so I'm hoping that it'll happen soon. I wanted it to happen straight away but so does everyone and I know it's not that simple!
Jo - Awww.. you're lovely. Thanks for that. Its good that your boobs are a bit sore. I really hope you get your bfp. You deserve it too! It's so nice to talk to you ladies. I've been told that your cycle can take a while to settle down after coming off the pill though hun so bare that in mind if you get bfn. You're af may not be due when you think so you could still be pregnant and may be too early to tell Tuesday - I would keep trying as if you're ovulating all the time though (well at regular intervals) cos you never know! Good luck sweetie!
Ladybee - thank you too! You've been really supportive. How are you doing at the mo? Where are you in your cycle? I really hope you get bfp soon hun too! We all deserve it no matter what we've been through. Best of luck to you hun. Lots of babydust. xxxxx
Posted: Fri May 02, 2008 9:55 am
Im only on day 8 so still got a while to go b4 ov but oh half and i have decided to bd from 30th April to 10th everday so we don't miss my ov date, would carry on abit longer but he as a sperm test and need to give him a brake for 2-3 days.
Posted: Fri May 02, 2008 10:08 am
its all so exciting!!
i haven't told any family or friends were trying to conceive coz dont want any added pressure, my friends are in relationships but their not exactly 'stable' or least there not even thinking about babies, i know they'l be excited when i fall pregnant but it wud be nice to know sumone around me who was pregnant at the same time.
most ladies on here complain that all there friends and neighbours are falling pregnant around them, my partners is very excited, dont get me wrong but i think his baby shopping level will be lower than mine.
Its a shame we all seem to live at opposite ends of the country, wudn't it be great if we cud have one big meet up? x