Posted: Sat May 03, 2008 1:14 pm
i have had my fair share of tantrums with my girls, mainly with the older one believe it or not. The younger one is far more chilled out, never lets anything bother her. It could be something to d o with losing the baby, its funny how their minds work. Maybe she even thinks that she wont be your baby any more and is seeking attention? Are you talking about it with your oh in front of her? When we first started trying my youngest said to me out of the blue one day, "I dont want you to have another baby mum"! I asked her why and eventually i got it out of her that she didn't think she would be my baby any more aah bless her. Anyway after i told her she will always be special to me(as is my other daughter, she seemed ok about it. They are funny arent they. I think if it was me i would try to ignore the tantrums as much as you can, but tell her how special etc etc she is? Hope that helps, its easier to give advice isnt it but whrn its your own its not so easy. Hope it gets better for you soon pup.
Posted: Sat May 03, 2008 1:22 pm
Thanks Helz. thats really good advice I dont like to see her so emotional and tantrums but cant put up with them all the either I will try and ignore and talk more when she is calm. Thanks so much, you have made me feel normal, for a while I thought it was just me. Pupx
Posted: Sat May 03, 2008 1:34 pm
ooohhh i cant wait till i have a daughter (hope i do one day) to negotiate with!! if she's anything like me she'll be very stubborn, aw its a lovely thought though.
sorry pup i know ur having a hard time, but i dont have any kids and fantasize about every situation, im sure 8 years or so down the line i'll fink of u and say ah thats wot she meant, hope u get things sorted hun. x
Posted: Sat May 03, 2008 3:14 pm
me too i really would love to have baby girl i have 3 boys LOL and love them with all my heart and 4 is more than enough children for us so just hope it might be girl but once u see the baby at birth u dont care wat the sex is