Posted: Sun May 04, 2008 6:35 pm
Post subject: you guys keep me positive
Hi there guys
I have only written on this forum a couple of times, a while ago, but I read it all the time. Just wanted to say, in my what seems like, many years of trying for a baby - not our first, I have a three year old, then I had a miscarriage, then I had a stillbirth last year - reading all your posts keeps me really positive. Thought I was mad until I realised that you guys think about it all the time as well (and probably most women do). Have been TTC since Sept 07, when our baby was still born, and each month with no success, had been feeling really down and stressed. But in the last few weeks of reading your posts, you have all brought a smile to my face, and just wanted to say a huge thankyou. I think it has really de-stressed me, and I hope that this will mean that I soon see BFP!!!!!
Wishing you all BFPs this coming month - you all deserve it so much
Posted: Sun May 04, 2008 6:45 pm
Post subject: thankyou ladies
So sorry for your loss too pup, it is very difficult to deal with - and yours was so recent. But feel more positive myself now, and starting to believe again that we might just get lucky again - no reason why not. Im sure you will too. Pips xxx
Posted: Sun May 04, 2008 6:46 pm
I am so sorry for your losses hun. That is something that no mother should have to go through, its truly awful.
Everyone on here is just fab and we keep each other going. Be positive and try not to stress over TTC too much and I am sure it will happen for you.
Posted: Sun May 04, 2008 6:52 pm
I find the first part of the month ok, with af and ov, but the second half of the month is torture - and I thought I was the only one, but seems from all your posts, you all feel the same. That is so reassurring, cos thought I was just the only loony ever. But I really empathise with you all when you are waiting to test - each day is so long, and you keep wondering is that a cramp? Is that spotting? So frustrating and disappointing but so much better when you know there are others in the same boat. Pips xx