Posted: Sun May 04, 2008 7:02 pm
Post subject: just a small question about
Like everyone here i'd love to get a BFP very soon.
ive always noticed the clear sticky discharge ( dont have any yet ) but does that mean your ovulating and its time to bd.
does anyone know if its a good idea to bd before this comes, whilst its here or after. i know the more you bd the better the chances of conception, now my ticker says its getting closer to the time i want to have the best chance of a BFP
tried looking through the posts but theres that many ( sorry if you've gone over this before )
Posted: Sun May 04, 2008 7:07 pm
I try to go from my dates rather than cm as its not always totally obvious, iykwim?! I usually get loads of it, but over a few days, normally after main ov dates, so I tend to bd day or two before my ticker says, then the day and then the day or two after, just in case I am late to ov, just to ensure I have all dates covered
If you are baby no. 3 then I am sure you will get your BFP soon. Try and remember what you did last time as it obviously works for you!!!!
Lots of babydust
Posted: Sun May 04, 2008 7:12 pm
i am a sad bof who has spent too long on google trying to work out when to bd and apparently you can get pg from bd up to 5 days or more b4 ov and abour 1 day after. So I go by my dates, and about 7 days b4 ov, we bd +++++ until about 2 days after, just to be on the safe side. But, not worked for us the last few months, so maybe best not listen to my advice lol!! Pipsx
Posted: Sun May 04, 2008 7:19 pm
Think i will forget my ticker and all the tecnical stuff, i fell straight away with my other 2 without trying.
so if its possible ( i know this is silly ) but im going to tell myself im not ttc ( and if i have to visit ask baby then its just to keep me sane ) and then see what happens.
ummmmmmm think i might becoming an askbaby forum addict
Posted: Sun May 04, 2008 7:26 pm
oh dear hun, you must find the ABFAA's post and join our merry little club of addicts/nutters
I think the natural way is best tbh. Unless there's something specific wrong that we need prof help for, then simply being patient and trusting that it will happen when the time is right, is the best plan.